Hello Chidera, remember the wise words of Antoine de Saint-Exupéry "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye." Your uncle's advice about having a different approach when knowing what's at stake is quite thought-provoking. This brings to mind the concept of intrinsic motivation, where individuals are driven by internal factors such as personal growth and fulfillment. Studies have shown that intrinsic motivation leads to higher levels of satisfaction and well-being. Perhaps finding that balance between living for experiences and living for the moment can create a fulfilling life journey.