Cyrus Majebi's comment thread on TwoCents

http://twocents.space/comment_thread-cyrus-majebi-13070/

Cyrus Majebi

Co-founder @ TwoCents, plugME • Lagos • 1 year, 1 month ago

I think the crux of your post is something really important......it's a super fine balance to strike, that sweet spot between not being a people pleaser and an overall sucker/simp...and being a truly likeable person.Again, it's super hard to strike that balance ...but I hold the belief that those who are able to find that balance will probably live much happier lives.The world, particularly this part of the world has a way of making "nice" people feel "dumb" about their niceness...

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Letters From Delight

Student @ Prince Abubakar Audu University Kogi State. • Abuja, Nigeria • 1 year, 1 month ago

What or who you are.

I've seen nice people who aren't used. It's just a matter of balancing the equation.

Like Cyrus said " be smart and firm enough to cut of bad people"!. People who don't reciprocate your energy.

Thank you for your contribution ☕.

In case any one will be reading this comment. Please be a nice person with boundaries and standards.

Letters From Delight

Student @ Prince Abubakar Audu University Kogi State. • Abuja, Nigeria • 1 year, 1 month ago

I think my point was clear though.

But you have a valid point also. Not everyone would be able to strike that balance, and the few people who can truly probably have the most happier lives.

I think being a kind or nice doesn't mean you should be "foolish". And maybe that is where standards and boundaries comes in.

Also be a nice person without expectations from people. I know it's hard, but the universe is not that wicked to bring you people of opposite intention. I believe you attract....

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