I feel its just jealousy, and the funniest part is, it always occur between two friends that know each other so well.. At this point it is no longer surprising and the funniest part is, very soon it will become a normal act like other terrific acts that are considered "normal" In this time and age... It's sad though.

Well said.

Sadly it never happens that way in real life.

If I may ask, why does your gender find it super easy to sabotage each other when there's something at stake?

I've heard tons of explanations and takes on this but I'd still like to get yours because I can't say I completely understand it yet.

It's like you guys are tunnel-visioned as regards seeing certain things as a zero-sum game, like if someone's own doesn't spoil, I won't get mine.

Hmmm, and the painful part is the reason behind their acts is always meaningless, I feel if you like a guy in a relationship and you can't hide it, you can just tell him straight without spoiling the person he's dating, and it is left for the man to decide and decline