That's nice.

I'm great thanks.

Ohh okay. I understand.

My day is going great and I didn't go to church today. Every other thing is fine. Thank you. Hope you are good as well?.

We're looking forward to all the great stories. Lol

Ohh Banter Corner, you can use it...I think you mean why you can post there, like create your own posts...

For now, TwoCents alone can post there and folks can comment on the posts...

However, very soon, folks will be able to post to banter corner by themselves!

We'll keep you guys updated.

How is your day going? How was church? How's school, learning Law etc.

@cyrusmajebi

Enough of my love story though. This is till my safe place. And I have a lot of personal love stories to share 😂. I just began!.

Why can't I use the banter corner please?.

Shege??

There was nothing like that though. Stuffs just happened that's all. We weren't bad to each other.

We are still cool at the moment.

Thank you!!.

It's nice though. Lol.

That you felt that way with him and learned a lot.💯

....I remember you said you're studying Law yeah? Lol.

It's quite obvious from this thread. Looool.

So I didn't really say anything about what you did...or if y'all were in a relationship..

....like I said, nothing was wrong with what you did, or saying no...I was just saying "one would feel bad for him". That's all.

Also, I didn't say you promised him anything...I was just giving an analogy to explain the point...

Again, you were right to do what you did if you didn't want to or feel like doing it...

Consent is key etc.

All I was jokingly saying is...the guy must have felt bummed.

No one should feel bad for both of us also.

Tbh, I'm actually a no-nonsence person. But I don't think it played a major role in our love story. Because that was my very first love. I don't mean I had not been in love before him. But he's the only valid one I can stand to testify our love and bond. He made me so vulnerable to love, and I love it till forever. I didn't do anything bad though 😔.

You'all should be comforting me sef 😂.

Issokay I don move on abeg, make I no con dey cry now.

@cyrusmajebi

@faye please back me up. Lol.

I understand you. But is it possible to be in a relationship with a guy, without any form of intimacy?. Wether kissing or sexual intimacy.... without them calling you a church girl?...LoL.

And do you think it was proper to have kissed a guy around 2twenty something at 17?.

And you said something about promise " I didn't promise him any thing, he only said he was going to do it without my consent, but out of love though".

I don't feel any bad for him..... @cyrusmajebi

Looool. Hmmmm.

I see. Why do I feel like you showed him more shege.

You're giving "La Femme Fatale" vibes.

Well I'll take your words, only because you are talking from the part I shared.

I didn't initiate the "intimacy". I only found myself in the middle of it. Or we both found ourselves in it.

And I did love him genuinely. But we weren't dating.

Maybe if I share the other parts, you'all might just call me a wicked person 😭😂.

I promise I didn't mean to hurt him anyways. A lot really occur 😂...wuna no go understand.

@cyrusmajebi

...or slightly bummed about it yeah?

Same thing with the guy.

And, all I'm saying, is that I'd feel sorry for him...not because what you did was bad or he should have complained or gotten angry...

But because he's human, and he might have felt bad that you..."changed your mind"..

Take this example...an aunt promises you 100k , and on the day she's about to give you, an unexpected expense pops up and she's not able to give you...

Now, you won't be angry at her...it's her money to give and she doesn't exactly owe you yeah...

But still, you'd feel bad...

Do I sound so serious?😂

You'all tbh, I want to know 😩....like I really want to know @cyrusmajebi

@faye

Why I'd feel a little sorry for him is that...

You're right to have done what you did, you decided to stick to your principles and values...and that's great...

But to him, that could be seen as "being led on"...and while it's fine to opt out of something in the middle of "doing it" or when you were about to do it...

The other person's feelings should be considered...

I'm being careful with all I'm saying because this is something that happened to you rather than a general, fictional account..

Loool.

Delight you sound so serious.

I don't want you to come for me...

Please oo, this is a safe space. Lol. I was just saying...

But to answer your question...

@cyrusmajebi

Please can I truly know why you feel bad for him?.

I honestly want to know.

Loool@ feel bad...

@faye I'm happy you said it...

I.... high-key felt bad for him, I didn't want to say it though because it might come have across the wrong way...

Delight seems like a very "no nonsense" person...I didn't want her to come for me. Lol.

Why do you feel bad for him??