Oluwadamilola Adesina's comment thread on TwoCents

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Oluwadamilola Adesina

Medical laboratory scientist, visual artist, business own... • Lagos • 1 year, 9 months ago

Part of deciding to grow together is to realise that we can pass through these stages all over again and we will come through. I'm at the stage where I know even if we are shouting down eachother's throat, or just cuddle up in bliss, you'll forever be here.

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Tobi Igbinedion

Co-founder @ TwoCents • Lagos, Nigeria • 1 year, 7 months ago

P.S. However, magnifying a mood or the temporal need for space whilst in a serious romantic relationship could be selfish and ironically a show of lack of awareness. Lack of awareness that it's not about just you anymore. You have an effect of the one who has decided to trust you with their heart and emotions. You have a responsibility to provide pleasure to your partner...and you might need to do this at moments when you feel off. This is what it means to Love someone.

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Tobi Igbinedion

Co-founder @ TwoCents • Lagos, Nigeria • 1 year, 7 months ago

Times and Seasons (chance) happen to them all...Ecc 9:11.

Every relationship would go through its cycles, sometimes you want to talk, sometimes you want some space. Understanding that these things happen and 'nothing has gone wrong' when 'you're not in the mood' is a high level of awareness. Thus holding on to what truly is our core and knowing we'd always be fine is what would keep us going 🙂

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