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Tobi Igbinedion Co-founder @ TwoCents Lagos 1 year ago
<p>Funny how that men of today are more open to leveling things out, but from the few glances I've seen, some women if given the chance, would do the exact same thing they now reprimand men for.</p>
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Quietly Loud Creative Writer | History Student | I Love FOOD @ Lagos S... Lagos, Nigeria 1 year ago

I appreciate this dialogue that we had. Different experiences shape how we each see things, and that’s okay. Thanks for the conversation, once again.

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Tobi Igbinedion Co-founder @ TwoCents Lagos, Nigeria 1 year ago

Fine. I also like to see it as Order. What doesn't hurt, doesn't hurt.

If the Gen goes bad in the house, I want to fix it, I know to walk round the house at night for my security checks.

When I'm hungry, I want to say "baby, I'm hungry" and my wife is willing to pamper me with her cooking. If she's not home, I fix myself and make preps for her too.

It's just a nice cohesion.

The problem is some women want to start questioning everything. Whilst we could just enjoy a nice cohesion.

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Quietly Loud Creative Writer | History Student | I Love FOOD @ Lagos S... Lagos, Nigeria 1 year ago

Thanks for your question. For me, balance means creating space where both men and women can thrive without one being valued over the other. Equality doesn’t mean sameness, it means fairness. It’s about giving women equal access to opportunities, choices, and rights, without being held back by traditional gender expectations. I appreciate the conversation.

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Tobi Igbinedion Co-founder @ TwoCents Lagos, Nigeria 1 year ago

What exactly does Balance and Equality mean? I agree that woman have been disadvantaged in many quarters for so long, but what precisely would equality mean? I'm curious to know how you'd respond to this.

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Quietly Loud Creative Writer | History Student | I Love FOOD @ Lagos S... Lagos, Nigeria 1 year ago

Thanks for sharing your view. I agree that no gender is perfect, and power can be misused by anyone. But the conversation on patriarchy isn't about switching roles or revenge, it’s about addressing long standing systems that have disadvantaged women. It's about balance, not reversal. I appreciate your engagement 😊.

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