That is why you harrass, and vilify women who choose to live on their terms, because if more women were aware of the risks, they may decide to remain on their own. Secondly, your assumption about my marital status was evident, and the additional statement seemed like a precautionary measure in case you were incorrect. You clearly attempted to diminish my perspectives, labeling them as the complaints of a single woman unable to find a partner, which is ironic since I don't know any single woman struggling to find a man - if anything, it's always harder for women to maintain their independence and autonomy without ppl like you labeling them unloveable or inadequate. I also share my thoughts and experiences as I see fit, and I won't be policed by anyone, as my writings are a reflection of my personal experiences and interactions with others, serving as my outlet for navigating human complexities. 

Another assumption is that I considered you an enemy for disagreeing with me or you would not feel the need to state that. You clearly have a fondness for jumping into unfounded conclusions.

Oh and thank you for all your comments on all the insights you’ve read. 😌

Secondly, i didn't assume you were single, that's why I added "or someone who sympathises with them".

I guess the first sentence of my comment is the reason you got sentimental and misread my comment, it wasn't an attack on your person as it may seem, but a sincere observation which you are welcome to disagree with.

Finally, I do use the words has and have interchangeably, hopefully I get better with this soon enough. I am not your enemy, just someone who believes you prefer complaining about others over doing an inward reflection. I enjoy your stories by the way. Thank you for always sharing.

completely unfounded, research suggests it’s your gender who doesn’t do well when single. I can share you some articles on this, as I’ve thoroughly researched it and studies show that relationships benefit y’all more, unlike you who clearly pulled your claim out from where the sun don’t shine. Additionally, your comment was laced with further misguided assumptions, notably the presumption that I’m single. Not that it’s any of your business, but I’m actually not. I can be in a healthy relationship and still advocate for equal rights and treatment of women. Or do you equate being an advocate with being single? So only single women think women should be treated better because of what exactly? 😂When a woman is dating or married, a man can mistreat her all she wants and she won’t complain or what? Hilarious and the height of ignorance. Thirdly, if you claim people should be allowed to live their lives on their own terms, why did you drop an unfounded quote about single women being unhappier? You want people to live their lives yet in the same breath want them to get into a relationship by force? You are confused, wrong and need to get your priorities in order. Start from informing yourself better about who is unhappier when partnered up, and it’s not my gender, I can assure you. When you’re done, desist from this ‘beta’ man agenda to stop women from choosing themselves and knowing their worth. Cheers.