Waripamo Allen's comment thread on TwoCents

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Waripamo Allen Student @ Niger Delta University • Yenagoa • 1 year, 7 months ago

<p>Is there a way to love someone unconditionally? Even when feelings fade, how can I still choose to love? It seems contradictory that feeling nothing would mean there's no love, yet I'm expected to keep loving. How can I reconcile this?</p>

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Waripamo Allen Student @ Niger Delta University • Yenagoa, Nigeria • 1 year, 7 months ago

Hmm… thank you🙏🏽

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Tobi Igbinedion

Co-founder @ TwoCents • Lagos, Nigeria • 1 year, 7 months ago

Well, if Jesus says to love your enemy, then love has to be beyond those "feelings". It has to be more about showing up and being a/the person you have decided, inspite and despite.

Then, as for rekindling, I think it can, just have to address and go back to some basics.

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Waripamo Allen Student @ Niger Delta University • Yenagoa, Nigeria • 1 year, 7 months ago

When I say 'feeling nothing,' I mean the butterflies, excitement, and deep connection I once felt with my partner have vanished. We've become comfortable companions, but the romance and passion have fizzled out. Despite caring about her deeply, I no longer feel that 'in love' feeling. Do you think it's possible to rekindle that spark, even when you've grown apart and don't share common interests?

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Tobi Igbinedion

Co-founder @ TwoCents • Lagos, Nigeria • 1 year, 7 months ago

What does "feeling nothing" mean? in context.

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