1. When you are taken you will be very attractive to others. Learn to keep boundaries
2. Every marriage has its challenges; the secret is to use those challenges to grow together
3. You may be ready for marriage but if you marry someone who is not, you will be greatly frustrated. Don't be loving the wrong person the right way
4. There is more to life than marriage, pursue your purpose even as you do life as a team
5. When you see you two as one, you will not see each other as competition
6. Find activities to do together as a couple. Love is built on activity
7. Be careful who you listen to, some people are not happy to be in their marriage or their single-hood and don't want you to be happy in your marriage.
8. Marriage has different seasons. The together season, the conflict season where you both try to find your space in it and conflicts often arise, the trial season where you would face reasons to quit, and the stronger together season where two emerge closer than ever before through joint victory, kindly know the season you are currently.
9. If you don't prepare for children, children will come and diminish the love and focus you two had for each other, Many marriages suffer when parenting brings.
10. Someone is watching your marriage and learning from you. what are you teaching them?
11. All the issues in your life that you did not deal with single-hood, will bring issues in your marriage, work on yourself.
12. Just because your parent's marriage failed, doesn't mean yours will too, just because your parent's marriage flourished doesn't mean yours will either, Take personal responsibility.
13. Do not give your spouse so much power that he or she makes you lose your sleep, live a miserable life, and kill your dream. Insulate yourself from your spouse when she turns negative.
14. Any marriage can survive any fall as long as the two are willing to forgive, change, and work on making sure love is perceived. Rise and move past the fall.
15. When you start to focus on the weaknesses and shortcomings of your spouse, you will be swayed by temporary distractions.
16. Money, disagreements, and decisions are easy to deal with when you two have a friendship at the core of your marriage.
17. Intimacy is more than having sex. Connect deeper beyond the orgasms through touch, hugs, cuddles, kisses, and great conversations
18. Your parents might mean well but they might ruin your marriage when they act or say based on their bias, prejudice, favoritism, tribalism, backwardness, bitterness, past hurt, or misinformation. They had their life, you build you, discern what advice to take out not.
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
Top Engagers
Most Engaged Content
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to 7 people with the best insights in the past month. The 7 winners are picked
by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
1
Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
rather than a lot of low-quality, spammy posts.
2
Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
3
Avoid using AI to generate content—use it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
4
Explore audio content—high-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
5
Use eye-catching cover images—if your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
6
Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
Contributor Rankings
The Rankings/Leaderboard shows the Top 20 contributors and engagers on TwoCents a monthly and all-time basis
— as well as the most active colleges (users attending/that attended those colleges)
The all-time contributors ranking is based on the Contributor Score, which is a measure of all the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
The monthly contributors ranking tracks performance of a user's insights for the current month. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on an all-time & monthly basis.
All-time Contributors
All-time Engagers
Top Monthly Contributors
Top Monthly Engagers
Most Active Colleges
Contributor Score
The all-time ranking is based on users' Contributor Score, which is a measure of all
the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
Here is a list of metrics that are used to calcuate your contributor score, arranged from
the metric with the highest weighting, to the one with the lowest weighting.
1
Subscriptions received
2
Tips received
3
Comments (excluding replies)
4
Upvotes
5
Views
6
Number of insights published
Engagement Score
The All-time Engagers ranking is based on a user's Engagement Score — a measure of how much a
user engages with other users' content via comments and upvotes.
Here is a list of metrics that are used to calcuate the Engagement Score, arranged from
the metric with the highest weighting, to the one with the lowest weighting.
1
A user's comments (excluding replies & said user's comments on their own content)
2
A user's upvotes
Monthly Score
The Top Monthly Contributors ranking is a monthly metric indicating how users respond to your posts, not just how many you publish.
We look at three main things:
1
How strong your best post is —
Your highest-scoring post this month carries the most weight. One great post can take you far.
2
How consistent the engagement you receive is —
We also look at the average score of all your posts. If your work keeps getting good reactions, you get a boost.
3
How consistent the engagement you receive is —
Posting more helps — but only a little.
Extra posts give a small bonus that grows slowly, so quality always matters more than quantity.
In simple terms:
A great post beats many ignored posts
Consistently engaging posts beat one lucky hit
Spamming low-engagement posts won't help
Tips, comments, and upvotes from others matter most
This ranking is designed to reward
Thoughtful, high-quality posts
Real engagement from the community
Consistency over time — without punishing you for posting again
The Top Monthly Contributors leaderboard reflects what truly resonates, not just who posts the most.
Top Monthly Engagers
The Top Monthly Engagers ranking tracks the most active engagers on a monthly basis
Here is what we look at
1
A user's monthly comments (excluding replies & said user's comments on their own content)
2
A user's monthly upvotes
Most Active Colleges
The Most Active Colleges ranking is a list of the most active contributors on TwoCents, grouped by the
colleges/universities they attend(ed)
Here is what we look at
1
All insights posted by contributors that attended a particular school (at both undergraduate or postgraduate levels)
2
All comments posted by contributors that attended a particular school (at both undergraduate or postgraduate levels) —
excluding replies
Below is a list of badges on TwoCents and their designations.
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