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"Am I Next?"
<p>Lately, it feels as though the world has become a catalogue of broken stories.</p><p>Headlines carved out of women’s pain.</p><p><span style="background-color: transparent;">Pains folded into statistics, and hashtags rising like smoke from a fire we didn’t start but somehow burn inside of.</span></p><p><br/></p><p>And in the quiet corners of my mind, a question trembles,</p><p>one I’m almost ashamed to admit out loud:</p><p>“Am I next?”</p><p><br/></p><p>Because the victims thought it would be someone else and not them.</p><p>But they have a way of cutting our expectations and making us the social media recitations on news headlines.</p><p><br/></p><p>I ask " Am I next".</p><p>Because if I had asked Ochanya, she would have thought it was a phrase.</p><p>A phrase that became her fate.</p><p><br/></p><p>I ask " Am I next?" </p><p>Not because I am weak,</p><p>but because the society I inhabit has mastered the art of making women feel perpetually endangered, as though our existence is a negotiation.</p><p>As though our survival is a matter of probability rather than right.</p><p><br/></p><p>Every new report feels like an indictment on humanity itself.</p><p>Assault.</p><p>Rape.</p><p>Femicide.</p><p>Patriarchal violence masquerading as culture.</p><p>The unending, senseless erasure of women.</p><p>It bruises my spirit in ways my vocals can barely hold.</p><p><br/></p><p>When I have to tell someone my every location, " I've arrived " Because if I don't, I might be in the next news headlines, and definitely the next food for hungry bloggers.</p><p><br/></p><p>And somehow, I feel guilty.</p><p>Guilty that I am here, still breathing,</p><p>while someone else’s life was extinguished without sympathy.</p><p><br/></p><p>Guilty that I cannot save every girl whose story becomes a warning.</p><p>Guilty that caution has become the inheritance of womanhood.</p><p>That we must measure our steps like we are walking through a minefield.</p><p><br/></p><p>But beyond the grief, beyond the fear that tries to colonise the mind,</p><p>there is a quieter truth- a fragile but stubborn flame of hope.</p><p><br/></p><p>Hope lives in the collective outrage of women who refuse to be quiet.</p><p>Hope breathes in the resilience of girls who rebuild themselves after shattering.</p><p>Hope rises in the conversations we are now brave enough to have,</p><p>in the laws we make and the justice we demand, in the courage that refuses to be muted.</p><p><br/></p><p>So when I whisper,</p><p>“Am I next?”</p><p>I also say, beneath my breath,</p><p>“We won't stop advocating.”</p><p><br/></p><p>Because women are learning not only to survive,</p><p>but to insist on a world that does not require survival as a skill.</p><p>A world where our bodies are not crime scenes waiting to happen.</p><p>Where our names do not trend only in death.</p><p>Where safety is not a privilege, but a necessity!</p>

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Dear woman, please take accountability
Cyrus Majebi Co-founder @ TwoCents, plugME
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Dear woman, please take accountability
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