DO THIS BEFORE YOU SLEEP TONIGHT OR TOMORROW NIGHT
1. Check how your spouse's day has been, don't feel less concerned or assume he or she has had a good day. Try and ask questions, that would lead to a sounding communication between the two of you.
2. Tell your spouse how your day has been, even before he asks or she does, you keep track to always tell him what would amuse him.
3. Give at least one compliment to your spouse, you notice how hard-working he is, or you as the man you notice how decent your wife has been, don't seize to give out the accolades, it goes a long way.
4. Share something: a meal, a piece of cake, a cup of coffee, or a one-hour Netflix together, not just get in and go straight to bed.
5. Appreciate your spouse for the spouse and parent he/she is. Yes, even if your spouse has flaws, you have flaws too. Overlook the shortcoming and appreciate what God has gifted you with.
6. Apologies to your spouse for any wrong you might have done willingly or unwillingly. Yes, even if you don't think you have done wrong you noticed your spouse feels offended.
7. Forgive your spouse, don't carry a grudge into a new day. It affects the health of the relationship.
8. Do at least one thing that fosters physical connection: be it a hug, a touch of the hand, a caress of the thighs, a body massage, a back rub, a back kiss, foreplay, or a cuddle.
9. Make love passionately, emotionally, and affectionately, in case you both have the energy and are in the mood to.
10. Make time to always pray together before bed, two head prayers are better than one, and don't always bank on the wife's prayers for the long run. At times two heads intercession connects the fastest.
11. Personal supplication on behalf of each other, ask yourself anything he/she would like you to pray for. Be your brother's keeper in the room of prayer.
12. Just imagine for a minute your spouse not in your life, and be reminded of how blessed you are to have someone to share life with. Say this to your spouse earing now and then it makes them feel special and appreciated.
13. Always remember to say “Goodnight” This is a sign to show how affectionate you are.
Do the above tonight, tomorrow night, and every night!
😊
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
Top Engagers
Most Engaged Content
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to 7 people with the best insights in the past month. The 7 winners are picked
by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
1
Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
rather than a lot of low-quality, spammy posts.
2
Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
3
Avoid using AI to generate content—use it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
4
Explore audio content—high-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
5
Use eye-catching cover images—if your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
6
Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
Contributor Rankings
The Rankings/Leaderboard shows the Top 20 contributors and engagers on TwoCents a monthly and all-time basis
— as well as the most active colleges (users attending/that attended those colleges)
The all-time contributors ranking is based on the Contributor Score, which is a measure of all the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
The monthly contributors ranking tracks performance of a user's insights for the current month. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on an all-time & monthly basis.
All-time Contributors
All-time Engagers
Top Monthly Contributors
Top Monthly Engagers
Most Active Colleges
Contributor Score
The all-time ranking is based on users' Contributor Score, which is a measure of all
the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
Here is a list of metrics that are used to calcuate your contributor score, arranged from
the metric with the highest weighting, to the one with the lowest weighting.
1
Subscriptions received
2
Tips received
3
Comments (excluding replies)
4
Upvotes
5
Views
6
Number of insights published
Engagement Score
The All-time Engagers ranking is based on a user's Engagement Score — a measure of how much a
user engages with other users' content via comments and upvotes.
Here is a list of metrics that are used to calcuate the Engagement Score, arranged from
the metric with the highest weighting, to the one with the lowest weighting.
1
A user's comments (excluding replies & said user's comments on their own content)
2
A user's upvotes
Monthly Score
The Top Monthly Contributors ranking is a monthly metric indicating how users respond to your posts, not just how many you publish.
We look at three main things:
1
How strong your best post is —
Your highest-scoring post this month carries the most weight. One great post can take you far.
2
How consistent the engagement you receive is —
We also look at the average score of all your posts. If your work keeps getting good reactions, you get a boost.
3
How consistent the engagement you receive is —
Posting more helps — but only a little.
Extra posts give a small bonus that grows slowly, so quality always matters more than quantity.
In simple terms:
A great post beats many ignored posts
Consistently engaging posts beat one lucky hit
Spamming low-engagement posts won't help
Tips, comments, and upvotes from others matter most
This ranking is designed to reward
Thoughtful, high-quality posts
Real engagement from the community
Consistency over time — without punishing you for posting again
The Top Monthly Contributors leaderboard reflects what truly resonates, not just who posts the most.
Top Monthly Engagers
The Top Monthly Engagers ranking tracks the most active engagers on a monthly basis
Here is what we look at
1
A user's monthly comments (excluding replies & said user's comments on their own content)
2
A user's monthly upvotes
Most Active Colleges
The Most Active Colleges ranking is a list of the most active contributors on TwoCents, grouped by the
colleges/universities they attend(ed)
Here is what we look at
1
All insights posted by contributors that attended a particular school (at both undergraduate or postgraduate levels)
2
All comments posted by contributors that attended a particular school (at both undergraduate or postgraduate levels) —
excluding replies
Below is a list of badges on TwoCents and their designations.
Comments