Filtered Reality: A Tale Of Social Media And Self-doubt
<p>Have you ever come across a page on social media, say Instagram, and not only did you admire that person, but you started wondering what your life would feel like if only you had just been there for a few hours?</p><p><br></p><p>Have you ever felt dissatisfied with yourself or even doubted while you scrolled online?</p><p><br></p><p>But have you ever stopped to think about the impact of those feelings on your mental well-being, or do you just accept whatever feeling comes as a result of your scrolling?</p><p><br></p><p>In this article, we'll delve into the world of social media and its effect on our self-esteem, anxiety, and depression.</p><p><br></p><p>The rise of social media </p><p><br></p><p>The rise of social media has been quite remarkable and has transformed the way we interact, communicate, and present ourselves to the world.</p><p>In today's digital age, social media has become an integral part of our lives. Platforms like Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter have made it easier than ever to connect with others, share our experiences, and present ourselves to the world. However, beneath the surface of likes, comments, and followers lies a more sinister reality: social media's devastating impact on our self-esteem.</p><p><br></p><p>The Delusion of Perfection</p><p><br></p><p>Social media platforms showcase the highlight reels of others' lives, creating unrealistic expectations and promoting self-comparison. We are bombarded with images of perfect bodies, flawless skin, and seemingly effortless success. Influencers and celebrities present curated versions of themselves, making it impossible for us to measure up.</p><p><br></p><p>A study by the Royal Society for Public Health found that social media use is linked to increased symptoms of depression and anxiety in young people. The constant exposure to manipulated and curated content can lead to self-doubt, low self-esteem, and a distorted view of reality.</p><p><br></p><p>The Trap of Comparison </p><p><br></p><p>Social media's algorithm-driven feeds ensure that we're constantly comparing ourselves to others. We measure our worth by the number of likes and followers we have, and we feel inadequate when we don't meet these arbitrary standards.</p><p><br></p><p>A survey by the Pew Research Center found that 60% of social media users report feeling lonely or isolated. The comparison trap perpetuates this sense of isolation, making us feel like we're the only ones struggling while, in a real sense, we are only seeing parts of their lives that they want us to see.</p><p>Hardly does anyone come on social media to show their authentic self or their real struggles in life.</p><p><br></p><p>The Impact on Mental Health</p><p>The consequences of social media-induced self-doubt can be severe. Research has shown that excessive social media use is linked to:</p><p><br></p><p>- Increased symptoms of depression and anxiety</p><p>- Decreased self-esteem and body satisfaction</p><p>- Poor sleep quality and reduced attention span</p><p><br></p><p>Breaking Free from the Cycle</p><p><br></p><p>So, how can we break free from the cycle of self-doubt and cultivate a healthier relationship with social media?</p><p><br></p><p>1. Take breaks: Regularly disconnect from social media to give yourself time to reflect and recharge.</p><p>Practice other mindful habits such as journalling before going to scroll online.</p><p>These breaks help you connect with your inner self and be grounded on your standards.</p><p><br></p><p>2. Follow accounts that promote positivity:</p><p>As much as we agree that most people promote toxicity and perfection we can also agree that our social media feed will only show us things we show interest in.</p><p>No one will ever force you to be entertained by content you don't enjoy or show interest in.</p><p>So it is important to be mindful of the accounts you follow, Surround yourself with content that inspires and uplifts you, and also engage in habitual decluttering.</p><p><br></p><p>3. Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would a close friend.</p><p>No one can make you feel less or great unless you agree to their ideas.</p><p>You must be kind to yourself.</p><p><br></p><p>4. Seek real-life connections: Nurture your relationships with family and friends, and engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.</p><p><br></p><p>Conclusion</p><p><br></p><p>Social media's impact on our self-esteem is a pressing concern that requires attention and action. By recognizing the delusion of perfection, avoiding the comparison trap, and taking steps to break free from the cycle, we can reclaim our self-worth and cultivate a healthier relationship with social media.</p><p><br></p><p>Remember, you are more than your online presence. Your worth and value come from within, and no amou<span style="background-color: transparent;">nt of likes or followers can ever define your true self.</span></p>
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
Top Engagers
Most Engaged Content
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to 7 people with the best insights in the past month. The 7 winners are picked
by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
1
Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
rather than a lot of low-quality, spammy posts.
2
Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
3
Avoid using AI to generate content—use it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
4
Explore audio content—high-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
5
Use eye-catching cover images—if your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
6
Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
Contributor Rankings
The Rankings/Leaderboard shows the Top 20 contributors and engagers on TwoCents a monthly and all-time basis
— as well as the most active colleges (users attending/that attended those colleges)
The all-time contributors ranking is based on the Contributor Score, which is a measure of all the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
The monthly contributors ranking tracks performance of a user's insights for the current month. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on an all-time & monthly basis.
All-time Contributors
All-time Engagers
Top Monthly Contributors
Top Monthly Engagers
Most Active Colleges
Contributor Score
The all-time ranking is based on users' Contributor Score, which is a measure of all
the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
Here is a list of metrics that are used to calcuate your contributor score, arranged from
the metric with the highest weighting, to the one with the lowest weighting.
1
Subscriptions received
2
Tips received
3
Comments (excluding replies)
4
Upvotes
5
Views
6
Number of insights published
Engagement Score
The All-time Engagers ranking is based on a user's Engagement Score — a measure of how much a
user engages with other users' content via comments and upvotes.
Here is a list of metrics that are used to calcuate the Engagement Score, arranged from
the metric with the highest weighting, to the one with the lowest weighting.
1
A user's comments (excluding replies & said user's comments on their own content)
2
A user's upvotes
Monthly Score
The Top Monthly Contributors ranking is a monthly metric indicating how users respond to your posts, not just how many you publish.
We look at three main things:
1
How strong your best post is —
Your highest-scoring post this month carries the most weight. One great post can take you far.
2
How consistent the engagement you receive is —
We also look at the average score of all your posts. If your work keeps getting good reactions, you get a boost.
3
How consistent the engagement you receive is —
Posting more helps — but only a little.
Extra posts give a small bonus that grows slowly, so quality always matters more than quantity.
In simple terms:
A great post beats many ignored posts
Consistently engaging posts beat one lucky hit
Spamming low-engagement posts won't help
Tips, comments, and upvotes from others matter most
This ranking is designed to reward
Thoughtful, high-quality posts
Real engagement from the community
Consistency over time — without punishing you for posting again
The Top Monthly Contributors leaderboard reflects what truly resonates, not just who posts the most.
Top Monthly Engagers
The Top Monthly Engagers ranking tracks the most active engagers on a monthly basis
Here is what we look at
1
A user's monthly comments (excluding replies & said user's comments on their own content)
2
A user's monthly upvotes
Most Active Colleges
The Most Active Colleges ranking is a list of the most active contributors on TwoCents, grouped by the
colleges/universities they attend(ed)
Here is what we look at
1
All insights posted by contributors that attended a particular school (at both undergraduate or postgraduate levels)
2
All comments posted by contributors that attended a particular school (at both undergraduate or postgraduate levels) —
excluding replies
Below is a list of badges on TwoCents and their designations.
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