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First Man
<p style="text-align: justify;">Think with Tosin</p><p style="text-align: justify;">The idea of the “first man” in many societies has long been associated with authority, provision, and dominance. Yet, reality today presents a more complex and evolving picture. Increasingly, we see households where the woman is industrious, financially active, and even the primary breadwinner, while the man adopts a more flexible or supportive role. This is not a collapse of masculinity, but rather a redefinition of partnership. Feminist theory, particularly strands of liberal and radical feminism, has consistently argued that gender roles are socially constructed, not biologically fixed. Thus, the popular saying what a man can do, a woman can do better is not merely rhetorical; it reflects lived experiences. Women like Oprah Winfrey and Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala exemplify how women can excel in spaces once dominated by men, often outperforming expectations.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">However, this shift should not be misunderstood as a license for irresponsibility. There is a clear distinction between shared roles and exploitation. A man who deliberately avoids responsibility while living off a woman’s income undermines the essence of partnership. But a man who collaborates with his wife, supports her ambitions, and even accepts her financial assistance when necessary embodies a healthier, more balanced model. The biblical notion of a “help meet” (Genesis 2:18) does not imply subordination but complementarity. It suggests that support can flow both ways. </p><p style="text-align: justify;">Moreover, it is important to normalize the idea that not all men are wired to work relentlessly throughout their lives. Just as women have fought for the right to choose their paths, men too should be allowed the dignity of flexibility without stigma. Enjoyment of life, rest, and alternative contributions should not be seen as weakness. The key lies in mutual respect and intentional balance. Men must resist pride that prevents them from accepting support, while also maintaining responsibility and integrity. </p><p style="text-align: justify;">In the end, the “first man” is not the one who dominates, but the one who understands partnership where strength is shared, roles are dynamic, and both man and woman thrive without competition, but in complement</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Just a random thought. </p>
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