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“God, what about me?”
<p>Staying in a place for so long. Waiting, praying, and wishing for something can be really frustrating, and sometimes it seems like forever. You wonder what you're doing wrong. Where did it all go wrong? What's actually wrong with you? But the funny thing is that nothing is actually wrong with you. Maybe sha. You've asked all the questions under the sun, tried lots of things, all to no avail. Silent nights and mornings of tears that you can't even let anyone see because, oh, they'll start with their talk or even talk you down. What about times when the people you expect to support you make you feel even worse? Of course, you don't tell them how you feel because in their mind, they're doing it out of "love." What kind of love is that anyways?</p><p><br/></p><p>You struggle. I don't mean a small struggle o. A lot. Trying to figure out the next approach. Trying to make the most of opportunities, but unfortunately, those "unfortunately emails" keep coming in. Are you actually that unfortunate? Or is something wrong somewhere? What exactly is the matter? You hear people's testimonies, and you begin to feel sad. Not because you're not happy for them, but that human feeling of "When will it be my turn?" keeps coming. You can't even feel comfortable when a friend or an acquaintance shares their good news because yours hasn't happened yet. You keep on saying, "God, what about me?" Really, what about you? It's not easy. And the thing is, people may think you're enjoying ,meanwhile—only you know what's going on. God sees you too. He knows you're putting in all your efforts, trying your best, believing, hoping, and waiting.<br/></p><p><br/></p><p>So here's what: instead of waiting for "your turn" to come to you, take a step today to align yourself with what you want. Focus on what you can control—your efforts, your growth, your mindset. Don't let comparisons steal your peace. You aren't unfortunate; you're in a journey. God sees you, and so do you. Take a breath, refocus, and move forward.</p>
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