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Big Dee
Writer | Speaker | Creative Voice. I tell stories, make calls & design confidence. @ Yabatech
Writer | Speaker | Creative Voice. I tell stories, make calls & design confidence. @ Yabatech
Most people need this: part 2
<p>I’m not here to justify rudeness or defend bad behaviour, and I’m definitely not here to talk down on any man of God, but I’ve realised something that keeps repeating itself in this generation... it’s very easy to speak boldly about pains you’ve never lived through.</p><p><br/></p><p>Recently, I saw the conversation online about comparing women’s menstrual pain to character or attitude, and it reminded me of what I posted earlier about that woman who apologised because she used to speak carelessly about struggles she didn’t understand.</p><p><br/></p><p>That’s exactly how it works:</p><p>When you haven’t walked a path, it will always look simple.</p><p>When you haven’t carried a weight, it will always feel light from afar.</p><p>And when you haven’t tasted someone’s pain, it will always look like an “excuse” to you.</p><p><br/></p><p>Yes, people are rude these days. Yes, some hide behind their struggles to misbehave. But still, we can’t erase the fact that there are real experiences, real pains, real pressures that only the person living in that body can truly explain.</p><p><br/></p><p>So before we speak with authority on a journey we haven’t walked, before we conclude on a struggle we’ve never carried, let’s remember that understanding is deeper than opinion.</p><p><br/></p><p>Stop judging others or advising them when you’ve never been in their shoes, it’s the person in the shoes that knows where it hurts.</p><p><br/></p><p>📷 A screenshot from one of her slides </p>
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