<p>Why do I silence my own needs just to be available for others, I feel like all my time, love and energy is so focused on others that I ignore my own needs. I've noticed that I constantly support and help others all at my own expense but why? I really don't understand this, can I really thrive if I constantly neglect myself. </p><p> I always find myself staying up late to help my friends with their problems but I have been battling with anxiety that hasn't rested in days. Even though I know that am beyond exhausted I keep saying yes to favours just to avoid disappointing others.</p><p> But is this really worth it, I have seen myself in ruins countless times. But now I won't stand by and watch myself get ruined. I do more than enough for others, so why should I let this constant guilt I feel when ever I fail to help others take control over me. I will finally take charge because I also have the right to rest and say "no" whenever I feel like, from now I will set boundaries with people Yes I too deserve love and support from others. I refuse to lose myself trying to hold others together.</p>
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It's important to take care of yourself you can't just put others before yourself
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to 7 people with the best insights in the past month. The 7 winners are picked
by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
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Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
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Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
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Avoid using AI to generate content—use it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
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Explore audio content—high-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
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Use eye-catching cover images—if your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
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Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
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The monthly score sums the score on all your insights in the past 30 days. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on TwoCents — these are community members that have engaged the most with other user's content.
Contributor Score
Here is a list of metrics that are used to calcuate your contributor score, arranged from
the metric with the highest weighting, to the one with the lowest weighting.
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Comments (excluding replies)
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Upvotes
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Views
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Number of insights published
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Subscriptions received
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Tips received
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