There Is No Perfect Love But There Is A Perfect Kind Of Love
<p>Don't get me wrong!</p><p><br/></p><p>People always say " there is no perfect love". Like it is a caution, something to warn us ahead so we don't get disappointed. But I'm beginning to realize that maybe it's not all that.</p><p><br/></p><p>Yes there is no human on earth that can live flawlessly. We all come with scars, moods and selfishness . There are seasons where we don't even know how to properly love ourselves, talk less of loving someone else.</p><p><br/></p><p><strong>I know it's a cliche that no person is perfect.</strong></p><p><br/></p><p>But when people say that there is no perfect love, they mean that people are flawed and imperfect. That nobody can genuinely love without hurting or being biased. Sometimes disappointing, and that is true.</p><p><br/></p><p>But one thing we don't realize is that, imperfect people can still choose to love in a perfect way. Not flawless love but intentional love.</p><p>Love that doesn't cancel people at the sign of inconvenience. The kind that doesn't judge my mistakes because I've made that same mistake twice.</p><p><br/></p><p>The one that doesn't discredit my feelings for corrections.</p><p>A love that is perfect even when emotions fluctuate.</p><p><br/></p><p>I know that as humans it can be difficult to keep up, not get irritated, or not want to react to things that do not sit right with us. But perfect love isn't about the reaction but the manner of it. It is not about finding the perfect person, It is about learning the perfect way to love an imperfect person.</p><p><em><br/></em></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><strong><em>"How do I love a flawed person in a perfect way?"</em></strong><br/>With patience.<br/>With an honest communication.<br/>With a soft heart even in disagreement </p><p style="text-align: justify; ">This applies to friendships, relationships, brotherhood, sisterhood and in relations with persons.</p><p>A perfect kind of love is not driven by feelings. Feelings are good but they don't sustain anything meaningful.</p><p>Real love is not beautiful because people are flawless. It is because they choose to love even when reality exposes their flaws.</p><p>And honestly that kind of love,it requires more than feelings. </p><p>It's a redeeming love not a flawless one.</p><p> That kind of love is possible - you deserve nothing less. So don't be discouraged by the imperfections of your current moment.</p><p> They don't invalidate the connection. Infact they might just be the place where this kind of love begins to blossom 🌸.</p><p><br/></p><p> Dearest gentle reader. I love </p><p>you!. Thank you for reading.</p><p><br/></p>
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