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How do you communicate to your partner that you are no longer attracted to them?
Communication is a way of life.
Being together in a relationship for months to years try to keep great communication, it will enable you to solve problems more easily
Before you commence a relationship, you guys need to talk about why you are committing to each other. Be direct and true to yourselves.
If it's just a sexual relationship, talk about it, if it is a long term serious affair that you will hope it becomes better daily, talk about it. If you just need a baby, talk about it. If you just need support or company, it's only right for you to have such a dialogue. If just looking for where to heal from a pain, please share.
This will help you better breakup or growup.
Learn to keep always your part of the bargain. Don't take things seriously when it was never the plan. If you most change the plan, talk about it with your partner.
If the long term is no longer in motion, call your partner's attention and make sure to be respectful, responsible and maintain composure to avoid over stepping bounce.
To better communicate a break up note this:
1) know the moment: Never voice a breakup when matters are bad. When the relationship is under going turbulence. It only makes you immature.
Settle all issues and on very calm and clean slate talk about why you both need to sort yourselves out individually or you need space to learn and grow yourselves.
2) Choice of words for breakup that won't hurt too bad: Since you are matured enough to use point one, now, carve out your words and phrases right. Make your former partner know you just want to know yourself more, make your partner to understand, you are work in progress and you have reach a limit where you need more alone time. You may even mention you need a healing period. Make them know you can still be friends if that's ok.
Those 2points can do a lot, but if you need more, you can signup to one of my courses on Relationship building...just send HOW on the comment section and things will be sorted out.
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