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What about a couple's financial situation is likely to give a recurring problem?
Finance is a serious topic of discussion before two individuals become partners in a relationship. Just like in a business deal, you must reach a compromise in your financial engagement.
Every Relationship: love or Business, communication is paramount at all times. Some topics don't have to be taboo topics like sexual satisfaction, child care and finance. These three topics are what hold a marital or serious couple relationship, but in our day-to-day life, it is the most unspoken topic of discussion.
This picture is only painted when the food goes sour and can't be managed any longer. Then a rescue team and fire brigade from both families, friends and church pastors and elders show up to pump out cold water after the fire has completely consumed the most part.
Guys before any relationship, put your voices together, discuss on sensitive topics like finance.
Worth mentioning, men and women, see and connect with finance differently, for example: money humbles men, while money brings out the animal in most broke women. When a former rich man reaches his peak, he becomes violent and transfers all the blame to wife and children. While when a former rich woman goes broke, she does all to be focused and to shield her home more.
Imagine not understanding that a very conversational man can suddenly go silent when he is broke, and such an attitude comes up, you as the lady you may think he doesn't love you.
Lay your relationship goals always on truth, love, care above all communication...make sure to do great as far as putting your financial record straight.
Avoid embarrassing situations as far as finance is concerned. If you have children, don't send them to a school you can't afford just because you want to measure up with your circle. Don't keep borrowing to measure up. Instead think of investment more...know when to discuss finance, don't abuse it.
You as partners must learn to respect each other. Don't think that only a man should spend at home if you are a woman, as a man don't think a women's place is only to consume. She is your multiplier. She will multiple what ever you plant in her.
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