Unapologetically Me - by Mimi🥀🌬️

‎I think it's high time we realized we are doing nobody a favour by displeasing, devaluing and shrinking ourselves.‎ Most people have lost their identities due to pressure from society, pressure from friends, and need for validation. Have you ever wondered if your current behaviour, manner of approach, likes, lifestyle is the real you? Take a little step back.‎‎Why are you easily influenced that you seem to forget your role and purpose? It's a stupid thing to live a life that would birth you regrets in future.‎ ‎Some people have duo personalities. Chameleons. And yes I am not talking about the good side of it rather the bad side of it. The hypocrites.‎You don't need to be a hypocrite to be diplomatic. Snitching is not diplomacy.‎‎I wonder why I would do anything to please you. I mean, why would I inconvenience myself to fit into your shoes when I have mine? (I have a lot of shoes I am still trying to fit into)🥲‎‎Live your life the way you want it not the way somebody else wants it.‎‎I have a friend that's so confident and bold when expressing herself. She reached out saying:‎‎"Mimi, I don't know why sometimes it looks like I am doing too much. People sometimes hate me for no solid reason. Sometimes I find myself trying to stoop low so I can allow others..."‎‎I said no no no!‎‎Shrinking yourself to make others comfortable is foolishness. But giving others room and validating their opinions without belittling and disregarding their perspectives is wisdom.‎‎You know, there's a way two people will argue and they still go about living fine whereas there's a way some people argue, and malice and hatred lingers for months.‎‎Your personality is the you you. Changing your personality negatively, is like living the pedestrian side walk and walking into a road with moving vehicles; you find it hard to figure out your move. Yes! At a point you might just stand still not knowing whether to walk or run at the end you either narrowly escape or end up incurring an accident. That's when life teaches you a hard lesson.‎‎What's my TC?‎‎If you came into life as Mr A, don't try being Mr B. But if Mr B has potentials, values, Mindset that can shape and uplift your mediocre level to a realm of excellence, then you can imbibe these traits and still remain Mr A. ‎‎Another sample.‎If your talent is singing and you have a role model that sings excellently well, it is wise to learn the works done behind the scenes to get to that level of perfectionism without trying to change your own tone/voice. All singers have unique voices but if all singers sang the same, the world would be a boring place.‎‎I hope this finds you and brings a change.‎‎‎

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