<p>Do we only miss the dead?<br/></p><p>I used to think grief belonged to cemeteries, to funerals, to names carved into stone. But some of the deepest losses still walk this earth.</p><p>The hardest goodbye was not to a lover, but to the friend I found inside one. The person who knew my silences, who held on to my stories, who made ordinary moments feel like home. When the love ended, that friendship disappeared with it, and somehow that hurt more.</p><p>I think of them every now and then. Whenever I hear the song that played the night we were together. I can’t forget it. Whenever I remember inside jokes that no longer have a place to land. Not enough to stop my day, but enough to remind me that they once lived in every corner of it.</p><p>Maybe that's why some people are so difficult to lose. They leave carrying pieces of us we trusted them with. A version of our laughter. Our secrets. Our softness. And sometimes they walk away with those pieces and never give them back.</p><p>It’s not our fault it didn’t work but life had other plans. We may be broken now but we’ll get over it eventually. </p><p>So no, I don't think we only miss the dead. Sometimes we miss the living more, because they are still out there somewhere, holding a part of us that we still recognize as our own.</p><p><br/></p>
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
Top Engagers
Most Engaged Content
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to between 7 and 20 community members with the best insights in the past month.
The winners are picked by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
1
Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
rather than a lot of low-quality, spammy posts.
2
Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
3
Avoid using AI to generate content—use it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
4
Explore audio content—high-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
5
Use eye-catching cover images—if your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
6
Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Contributor Rankings
The Rankings/Leaderboard shows the Top 20 contributors and engagers on TwoCents a monthly and all-time basis
— as well as the most active colleges (users attending/that attended those colleges)
The all-time contributors ranking is based on the Contributor Score, which is a measure of all the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
The monthly contributors ranking tracks performance of a user's insights for the current month. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on an all-time & monthly basis.
Below is a list of badges on TwoCents and their designations.
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