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DONT BE A PUPPET
<p style="text-align: center; "><strong>SELF CONTROL</strong></p><p><br/></p><p>If you don't want people to control you or manipulate you, never allow them to know these things about you.</p><p><br/></p><p>1 your weaknesses, everyone has weaknesses maybe is anger,money, loneliness or temptation but the moment someone knows what makes you give in they know exactly how to persuade or manipulate you. That is why you should work on your weaknesses instead of exposing them.</p><p><br/></p><p>2 your emotional <a class="tc-blue" href="https://triggers.An" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">triggers.An </a> emotional trigger is something that quickly makes you angry, jealous, afraid or desperate. If someone knows exactly what upsets you they can deliberately do or say those things just to control your reactions but the more control you have over your reactions the less control other people have over you so don't give anyone the remote control to your emotions.</p><p><br/></p><p>3 your insecurities. Insecurity is something about yourself that makes you feel embarrassed or not good enough maybe you don't like your appearance, education, background or your financial situation. If someone knows what makes you insecure they can use it to make you doubt yourself or do things just to gain their approval so never give people that kind of power over you </p><p><br/></p><p>4 what you depend on too much. Anything you feel you can't live without can become a tool someone uses against you. If you desperately need people's approval someone can control you by praising or rejecting you, if you are addicted to money, popularity or attention someone can use those things to influence your choices. The less you depend on things you can't control the freer you become.</p><p><br/></p><p>5 your secrets. The more secrets someone holds about you the more power they may try to have over you. That is why it is wise to live with integrity and be careful about what you share, some people protect your secrets, others save them for the day they want something from you. Choose carefully who earns your trust. Being private doesn't mean you are unfriendly, it means you are wise enough to know that not everyone deserves access to your life</p>
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