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Jeff Ehis Nigeria
Student @ University of Benin
Benin City, Nigeria
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In Relationships 2 min read
MARRIAGE DOESN'T END AT THE ALTER
<blockquote style="text-align: center;">*<strong>ONE OF THE SILENT DESTROYERS OF MARRIAGE IS NEGLECT</strong>*</blockquote><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Love is like a flame—you must keep feeding it, or it will slowly burn low. A healthy marriage doesn't survive on yesterday's romance. It grows through today's effort.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Before you married her, you called her every morning and every night.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Before you married her, you called her every morning and every night.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You checked on her just to know how her day was going.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You couldn't wait to hear her voice.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You bought her gifts, no matter how small.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You appreciated her hairstyle, her dress, her smile, and her beauty.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You made her feel like the most important woman in the world.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You even used her picture as your phone's wallpaper.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You stayed awake talking to her for hours.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You wrote sweet messages and did everything possible to make her smile.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Now that she is your wife, what happened?</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Why did you stop doing the very things that won her heart?</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The same woman you won with love and care still needs that same love and care today. Marriage is not the end of romance; it is the beginning of a deeper one.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Love is not a one-time event. Love is a daily decision.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The same woman you took out for dinner while you were dating still wants to go out with you.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The same woman you surprised with gifts still appreciates thoughtful surprises.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The same woman who smiled because of your attention still wants to feel valued.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The same woman who was your priority before marriage should not become an option after marriage.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Never assume that because you are married, you no longer need to pursue your spouse.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Keep dating your wife.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Keep appreciating her.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Keep holding her hand.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Keep listening to her.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Keep praying with her.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Keep making her laugh.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Keep making memories together.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Don't allow work to replace your family.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Don't allow your phone to get more attention than your spouse.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Don't allow social media to steal the conversations you should be having with each other.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Don't become so busy providing for your family that you forget to be present with them.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Sometimes your spouse doesn't need expensive gifts. She needs your attention.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">She needs your time.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">She needs your affection.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">She needs your encouragement.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">She needs to know that after all these years, </p><p style="text-align: justify; ">she is still loved, appreciated, and chosen.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Never stop doing the things that made your spouse fall in love with you. Marriage is not sustained by the wedding day; it is sustained by the daily choice to love, honor, respect, and cherish one another.</p>

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