Journal of the bereaved one: The solace of Absence
<p>And all of a sudden, we weren't as close as we once were.</p><p>It happened so gradually that neither of us noticed. Not because the care had disappeared, nor because there had been some great argument, but because we were so alike in some ways and so different in others that our perspectives often collided, leaving us both quietly unsatisfied.</p><p>Slowly, we learned to be happy without each other's presence, finding an odd sort of solace in the silence of our absence. And the more comfortable we became apart, the farther we drifted from one another.</p><p>We still think of each other—at least, I know I do. In moments when I long for someone who understands my mind, my thoughts always wander back to that person. Yet I know they are only thoughts, because no matter how much I wish we could return to what we had, perhaps we were never meant to last.</p><p>Our friendship was born from the ruins of another relationship. It blossomed quickly, almost beautifully, and just like the relationship that gave it life, it moved too fast. Perhaps that was always its fate.</p><p>Sometimes the most beautiful things are also the most destructive. They arrive without warning, bloom brilliantly, and vanish just as quickly, leaving behind love that lingers, memories that refuse to fade, and wounds that take far longer to heal than the joy ever lasted.</p><p>Perhaps neither this friendship nor the one before it was ever meant to endure. Not because we were too different, but because we were different in the ways that mattered most.</p>
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
Top Engagers
Most Engaged Content
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to between 7 and 20 community members with the best insights in the past month.
The winners are picked by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
1
Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
rather than a lot of low-quality, spammy posts.
2
Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
3
Avoid using AI to generate content—use it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
4
Explore audio content—high-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
5
Use eye-catching cover images—if your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
6
Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Contributor Rankings
The Rankings/Leaderboard shows the Top 20 contributors and engagers on TwoCents a monthly and all-time basis
— as well as the most active colleges (users attending/that attended those colleges)
The all-time contributors ranking is based on the Contributor Score, which is a measure of all the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
The monthly contributors ranking tracks performance of a user's insights for the current month. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on an all-time & monthly basis.
Below is a list of badges on TwoCents and their designations.
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