<p>We did not change overnight.</p><p>No.</p><p>We shifted.</p><p><br/></p><p>Like land after rain.</p><p>Quiet.</p><p>Unannounced.</p><p>Until even the rivers forgot</p><p>where they used to run.</p><p><br/></p><p>Before the wedding,</p><p>we were morning dew,</p><p>soft on each other’s names,</p><p>careful not to bruise the day.</p><p><br/></p><p>After the vows,</p><p>we became weather.</p><p><br/></p><p>Promises stood tall like palm trees,</p><p>but neglect crept in like termites,</p><p>patient,</p><p>silent,</p><p>chewing at the roots</p><p>while we were busy surviving.</p><p><br/></p><p>Love was still there.</p><p>Do not mistake me.</p><p>Just buried</p><p>under routine,</p><p>under tired evenings,</p><p>under questions</p><p>we were too exhausted to ask.</p><p><br/></p><p>They say,</p><p>“the pot that cooks the soup</p><p>is the first to feel the heat.”</p><p>Marriage taught us that early.</p><p><br/></p><p>We argued like harmattan winds,</p><p>dry,</p><p>dusty,</p><p>throwing words into each other’s eyes</p><p>until nobody could see clearly.</p><p><br/></p><p>Then silence came.</p><p>Long silence.</p><p>Punishing silence.</p><p>Silence pretending to be peace.</p><p><br/></p><p>Mahatma Gandhi said,</p><p>“Where there is love, there is life.”</p><p>And we were alive,</p><p>yes,</p><p>but still learning</p><p>how to love without wounding.</p><p><br/></p><p>We stopped listening to the birds.</p><p>Stopped noticing</p><p>how the sky changes colors</p><p>before night arrives.</p><p>We wanted permanence</p><p>but forgot</p><p>that even nature survives</p><p>by adapting.</p><p><br/></p><p>Resentment grew like weeds</p><p>in an unattended garden.</p><p>Small issues became forests.</p><p>We walked past each other</p><p>and called it normal.</p><p><br/></p><p>There is an adage that says,</p><p>“when two elephants fight,</p><p>the grass suffers.”</p><p>And in our home,</p><p>the grass was tenderness.</p><p>The grass was laughter.</p><p>The grass was us.</p><p><br/></p><p>Society spoke too.</p><p>About timelines.</p><p>About milestones.</p><p>About what successful couples do.</p><p>Family asked</p><p>when we would have children,</p><p>when we would finally settle.</p><p>Their voices became background noise</p><p>and somewhere along the way</p><p>we forgot our own song.</p><p><br/></p><p>But nature is patient.</p><p><br/></p><p>After wildfire,</p><p>the earth still breathes green.</p><p>After storms,</p><p>the river finds its voice again.</p><p><br/></p><p>So we are learning now</p><p>to become rainfall instead of thunder.</p><p>To bend like bamboo</p><p>instead of breaking like dry branches.</p><p>To speak gently,</p><p>the way evening speaks to the sun.</p><p><br/></p><p>Marriage did not ruin us.</p><p>It revealed us.</p><p>It showed us who we were</p><p>when the music stopped</p><p>and life asked us to stay.</p><p><br/></p><p>What we became after the wedding</p><p>was not less in love,</p><p>just more human.</p><p><br/></p><p>And like the earth,</p><p>we are learning again</p><p>how to bloom.</p>
At the end of the month, we give out prizes in 3 categories: Best Content, Top Engagers and
Most Engaged Content.
Best Content
Top Engagers
Most Engaged Content
Best Content
We give out cash prizes to between 7 and 20 community members with the best insights in the past month.
The winners are picked by an in-house selection process.
The winners are NOT picked from the leaderboards/rankings, we choose winners based on the quality, originality
and insightfulness of their content.
Here are a few other things to know for the Best Content track
1
Quality over Quantity — You stand a higher chance of winning by publishing a few really good insights across the entire month,
rather than a lot of low-quality, spammy posts.
2
Share original, authentic, and engaging content that clearly reflects your voice, thoughts, and opinions.
3
Avoid using AI to generate content—use it instead to correct grammar, improve flow, enhance structure, and boost clarity.
4
Explore audio content—high-quality audio insights can significantly boost your chances of standing out.
5
Use eye-catching cover images—if your content doesn't attract attention, it's less likely to be read or engaged with.
6
Share your content in your social circles to build engagement around it.
Top Engagers
For the Top Engagers Track, we award the top 3 people who engage the most with other user's content via
comments.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Engagers" tab on the rankings page.
Most Engaged Content
The Most Engaged Content recognizes users whose content received the most engagement during the month.
We pick the top 3.
The winners are picked using the "Top Monthly Contributors" tab on the rankings page.
Contributor Rankings
The Rankings/Leaderboard shows the Top 20 contributors and engagers on TwoCents a monthly and all-time basis
— as well as the most active colleges (users attending/that attended those colleges)
The all-time contributors ranking is based on the Contributor Score, which is a measure of all the engagement and exposure a contributor's content receives.
The monthly contributors ranking tracks performance of a user's insights for the current month. The monthly and all-time scores are calcuated DIFFERENTLY.
This page also shows the top engagers on an all-time & monthly basis.
Below is a list of badges on TwoCents and their designations.
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