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The Voa
Content Writer @ Student||Federal University of Oye Ekiti
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Do Not Let Them Change You.
<p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>I've seen a lot of people change because of other people's opinions about them. They stopped being the beautiful souls they were because someone told them they needed to add “a touch of madness” to their kindness.</p><p><br/></p><p>I've seen quiet people turn into wolves because someone told them that people would take them for granted or use their silence against them.</p><p><br/></p><p>People can never be satisfied. That's one thing you should know before you allow their opinions to change who you are. No matter how hard you try to do better, they will always find something wrong and something to correct you about.</p><p><br/></p><p>Whether you are kind, quiet, loving, or cheerful, do not ever let people's opinions define you. Just make sure you are doing well and staying true to yourself.</p><p><br/></p><p>🌸 As a quiet person, there are times when you have to speak up. There are times when you have to defend yourself and make people understand that you are quiet for a reason—not because you are daft, dumb, or slow.</p><p><br/></p><p>🌸 As a kind person, there are also times when you have to say no for the sake of your peace of mind and well-being. You don't have to please people all the time. You have to make time for yourself and learn to be there for yourself too.</p><p><br/></p><p>🌸 You don't have to lose yourself just because you want to keep people close or because you want people to see you as perfect.</p><p><br/></p><p>Learn how to balance things. Know when to be kind and when to set boundaries. Know when to be quiet and when to speak up. But above all, do not allow what people say to define you or change the beautiful qualities that make you who you are.</p><p><br/></p><p>Stay kind. Stay soft. Stay true to yourself. Just learn when to protect the person you are becoming. 🥹🌸</p><p><br/></p><p>Toria. ✍🏿</p>

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