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<p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>Men can be abused. </p><p><br/></p><p>A man was married with two children, he had a stroke one day and everything changed, his wife started treating him differently, mind you he was a heavy spender,</p><p> he worked day and night to keep that woman happy but when she started working, she'd literally leave him for days without giving him a bath, no hired nurse, some days she left him with poop 💩 for hours.</p><p> Finally, </p><p>His mother requested for her son, his friends took action, took him back to his house. For three good days she did not call,</p><p> I can only imagine how that guy must have felt. </p><p><br/></p><p>Mr Ade got married to a white lady, moved abroad. </p><p>God that woman pushed all the buttons but this guy remained calm . She'd literally hit him with a baseball bat that injured him some days or lock him outside if they have any arguments at all.</p><p> Some days he slept at the subway bench while some days she'd literally beat the hell out of him. Omo baba no even react back because he knows how the state law can be.</p><p> He woke up one morning, with bruises all over and said he no do again. Marriage is for better or worse but she pushed his button and he jejely packed himself and his <a class="tc-blue external-link external-link" href="https://things.He" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">things.He </a> gave a divorce letter and told her he doesn't want to die in the name of love. They quietly got divorced </p><p><br/></p><p>Hmm</p><p><br/></p><p>Some men are going through a lot and we rarely talk about it, someone said ''it's because women have more support than men,"</p><p><br/></p><p>Is it true? </p><p><br/></p><p>I don't agree with that , I just feel some men are like sponge, they absorb a lot and rarely talk about it </p><p><br/></p><p>One man said</p><p><br/></p><h4> <sup>"Omo guy I dey chest bills, not like I'm complaining but if na my wife dey provide, honestly I know I'd be licking her feets every day telling her 'Thank you Ma.' " </sup></h4><p><sup><br/></sup></p><p>Now tell me something </p><p><br/></p><p>Do you think women can handle the responsibility most responsible men carry ? </p><p><br/></p><p>And </p><p><br/></p><p>How do we talk more about the abuse most men face ? </p><p><br/></p><h3></h3><h3><br/></h3><h3>Because you will rarely see any man come online and talk about how he is physically and emotionally abused.</h3><h3>I would really love to know  what you think what you think in the comment section.<br/></h3>

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