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Edder Nigeria
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In People and Society 2 min read
THE QUESTION "WHO ARE YOU"
<p><img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/375389.jpg" style="background-color: transparent;"/>WHO ARE YOU?</p><p><br/></p><p>Whenever we are asked, “Who are you?”, our answer almost comes automatically.</p><p><br/></p><p>We give our name, perhaps followed by our father’s name.</p><p><br/></p><p>“I am Rain, son of Weather.”</p><p><br/></p><p>And somehow, we believe we have answered the question.</p><p><br/></p><p>But what if we haven’t?</p><p><br/></p><p>What if your name is only what people call you, and not who you are?</p><p><br/></p><p>This question first got stuck in my head about two months ago while I was scrolling through TikTok. I came across a video of an interview where the interviewer asked the person sitting opposite him a very simple question:</p><p><br/></p><p>“Who are you?”</p><p><br/></p><p>The man confidently gave his name.</p><p><br/></p><p>To my surprise, the interviewer told him he was wrong.</p><p><br/></p><p>He explained that he had only given his name, not who he was.</p><p><br/></p><p>The interviewer asked again.</p><p><br/></p><p>This time, the man mentioned his profession, his position, where he was from and other things that seemed to define him.</p><p><br/></p><p>Again:</p><p><br/></p><p>“Wrong.”</p><p><br/></p><p>That caught my attention.</p><p><br/></p><p>Then the interviewer asked him once more.</p><p><br/></p><p>The man tried a different approach. He described himself as gentle, easygoing, the things he liked, the things he hated and the kind of person he believed himself to be.</p><p><br/></p><p>Surely, I thought, this has to be the answer.</p><p><br/></p><p>But once again, the interviewer said he was wrong.</p><p><br/></p><p>He explained that the man was only describing his personality.</p><p><br/></p><p>And then the video ended.</p><p><br/></p><p>I searched for the second part.</p><p><br/></p><p>Nothing.</p><p><br/></p><p>I searched again.</p><p><br/></p><p>Still nothing.</p><p><br/></p><p>And somehow, a simple question from a random video has stayed with me ever since.</p><p><br/></p><p>Because the more I thought about it, the more interesting the question became.</p><p><br/></p><p>If my name isn't who I am…</p><p><br/></p><p>If my profession isn't who I am…</p><p><br/></p><p>If where I come from isn't who I am…</p><p><br/></p><p>And even my personality isn't entirely who I am…</p><p><br/></p><p>Then who am I?</p><p><br/></p><p>Maybe we have spent so much time introducing ourselves that we have forgotten to actually know ourselves.</p><p><br/></p><p>We know what we are called.</p><p><br/></p><p>We know what we do.</p><p><br/></p><p>We know where we come from.</p><p><br/></p><p>We know what we like and dislike.</p><p><br/></p><p>But do we really know who we are?</p><p><br/></p><p>Perhaps that is a question each of us has to answer for ourselves.</p><p><br/></p><p>So, today, I want to pass the question on to you.</p><p><br/></p><p>Forget your name for a moment.</p><p><br/></p><p>Forget your job.</p><p><br/></p><p>Forget your position.</p><p><br/></p><p>Forget where you come from.</p><p><br/></p><p>Forget every label you've been given.</p><p><br/></p><p>And ask yourself, honestly:</p><p><br/></p><p>Who are you?</p><p><br/></p><p>I don't have a satisfying answer yet.</p><p><br/></p><p>Maybe you do.</p><p><br/></p><p>So, esteemed reader…</p><p><br/></p><p><strong>WHO ARE YOU?</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p>

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This piece is based on a question that has been bothering me, so I'd love if readers could share their thought on the question 'Who Are You'

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