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Edder Nigeria
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In Mental Health 3 min read
MEMORIES ARE BUT SUBTLE ILLUSIONS
<p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>Memories Are but Subtle Illusions</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">"The mind remembers, but does it remember the truth? Or merely the feeling of what once was?"</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">There is something strange about memory.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">It arrives without permission. A familiar scent, an old song, a quiet street, a passing face, and suddenly you are no longer where you stand. Your body remains in the present, yet your mind has travelled years into a place that no longer exists.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Is that not an illusion?</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Not because the event never happened, but because the moment you revisit is no longer reality. It is only a reflection shaped by time, emotion, longing, and regret. Memory whispers as though it speaks the truth, but more often than not, it speaks through the language of feeling.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Perhaps that is why memories are but subtle illusions.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The human mind does not simply store the past; it recreates it. Every remembrance is another interpretation. Every recollection is another painting drawn by emotions that continue to change. The past remains untouched, yet our minds repaint it each time we return.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">What, then, are we truly remembering?</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The event?</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Or the version of ourselves that survived it?</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The subconscious does not distinguish between what is happening now and what is vividly remembered. A painful memory can make the heart race as though danger has returned. A joyful memory can make us smile over something that ended years ago. The body reacts. The mind believes. Reality waits.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And so we become travellers between two worlds—the one that exists and the one that no longer does.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Joy and fear are the silent architects of memory.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Joy convinces us that yesterday was better than today.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Fear convinces us that yesterday is still happening.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">One tempts us to remain where comfort once lived.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The other refuses to let us leave where pain once existed. Yet both steal the only thing we truly possess; the present.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Marcus Aurelius quietly reminded humanity: "Confine yourself to the present."</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Perhaps he understood what many of us are still learning: that consciousness loses itself whenever it chooses echoes over existence.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Think about it.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">How many battles are fought against people who are no longer there?</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">How many conversations continue only inside the mind?</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">How many tears are shed over endings that time has already buried?</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And how many opportunities disappear because someone keeps searching for a happiness that belonged to another season of life?</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The subconscious is powerful.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">It records every wound, every victory, every embarrassment, every embrace. Yet it does not know when to let go. That responsibility belongs to consciousness.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Memory was never created to imprison us. It was created to instruct us.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">History itself understands this principle. Civilizations remember wars not to relive them but to avoid repeating them. The wise do not erase the past, nor do they build homes inside it. They carry its lessons and continue walking.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Perhaps that is the balance life quietly asks of us.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Remember. But do not remain.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Reflect. But do not return.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Learn. But do not live there.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">For the moment memory becomes your residence, reality becomes a stranger.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The past has already completed its purpose.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The future has not yet introduced itself.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The present is the only place where life is breathing.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">So when memory calls your name, as it surely will; listen only long enough to understand the lesson. Then gently close the door.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Not because the past is unimportant. But because your life is happening somewhere it can never follow.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">For memories are beautiful.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/322121.png" style="background-color: transparent;"/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">They are painful.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">They are necessary.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Yet they remain what they have always been;</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Subtle illusions... echoes of moments that can be remembered, but never relived.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">— A Piece by EDDER</p>

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