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Oluwatoyin Odunuyi Nigeria
Freelance writer and Digital marketer @ I work remotely
Lagos, Nigeria
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In Literature, Writing and Blogging 4 min read
June, the month I was almost kidnapped!
<p>Can I say a happy, happy new month to you? This has to be the fastest year in history because how are we in July now? </p><p>We have less than six months to go before this year runs out. Meaning I have exactly six months to figure out my life this year. </p><p>Ghen-gehn-Ghen-Ghen. </p><p>The decision of whether to stick to a 9-to-5 or commit fully to business, whether to do an arranged marriage or just japa. Decisions, decisions...</p><p>Thank God for the Holy Spirit, who always provides us with insights and helps us in adulthood, because these are tough times. </p><p>So, let's get into it quickly. How was June for me? I think this was the month I truly understood what it means to be an adult. I just dey think. EVEN IN MY DREAM, I DEY THINK!</p><p><img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/unnamed.gif"/></p><p>Finishing NYSC was a reminder that the world was out there, and I needed to conquer it. I had to get a job, but I also had to choose myself in the process. Previously, I would jeopardise my own comfort and sanity to secure employment, which made absolutely no sense.</p><p><br/></p><p>So, I started being intentional about my job search. And believe it or not, the moment I stopped fussing, I actually got a job. See God!</p><p><br/></p><p>Before that breakthrough, though, I went for a job interview at Ketu, where I was almost kidnapped. I had no idea their website was entirely AI-generated. They marched us into a room to watch a short film that turned out to be a full-on sermon, then told us to write a summary afterward. While the sermon was playing, I was sitting there thinking, "All this for a digital marketing role?"</p><p>I was fasting that day, so my spirit was already protesting. Finally, I mustered the courage to run out of there with my friend's help. Luckily, no one tried to stop me on my way out. Honestly, it was just God's mercy. Why on earth were you telling me to pack a week's worth of luggage "in case I was chosen for the role"? </p><p>Nigerian people can be so wicked.</p><p>Lesson learned: Be wiser with in-person interviews, be intentional about your job search, and pay attention to what actually works for you and the realities of the country.</p><p>I had to make wise decisions in my life. Most of all, June was the month I realised that God truly hears me.</p><p><img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/unnamed_1.jpg"/></p><p>Every day, I pray for my brother, Tobi. I worry about how he will navigate this world and what would happen if my family isn't there. It is one of the most crippling thoughts I have. Even if my family makes financial provisions for him, money doesn't buy empathy or care. Who else would understand that Tobi is having a meltdown just because of the sound of the generator?</p><p>The worst fear of my family is that my autistic brother will be left in the world without love and empathy. </p><p>But I spoke to God about it every day, and when Tobi came home last week for his midterm break, it felt like heaven. This is a boy who usually needs medication to sleep, but he fell asleep on his own.</p><p>Then, something happened that made me cry. Tobi saw a stack of plates in the sink and, without anyone asking him to, he washed them. He cleaned; his speech was clearer; he understood maths; and get this, he could even identify currency notes and could understand the process of cooking certain meals. He brought out the red oil while I was cutting potatoes for porridge! </p><p>I know these might seem like little things, but when you are used to dealing with a disability, you learn to worship the little wins.</p><p>This isn't by our doing, or even just his school; this is God. He worked on Tobi, and it completely shifted how I view prayer. It doesn't matter if I am singing a worship song or full-on blasting in tongues; He hears me. All that is needed is hope and faith.</p><p>So, June was the month my faith was heightened, the month adulthood came kicking, and the month I finally knew myself and made absolutely no apologies for it. </p><p>What a month! I'm looking forward to July, trusting that God has heard me concerning my projects, my new work, and His continuous provision.</p><p>Reboot Camp is coming up, and I love the theme: "The Fire Will Find You." The refining fire of God will definitely move through me. But as for His consuming fire? Hmmm... When I get to praying, my enemies will just be wondering, "Kilode? Why is this place so hot?"</p><p>HEHEHEHEHEEE, They don't know about it. The fire will find them, especially the ones in that Abuja!</p><p><img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/unnamed_1.gif"/></p><p>Oh well, have a great day! I pray July will be a great month for you, in Jesus' name, and that lines fall in pleasant places for you; most importantly, that you work hard, hand in hand with God, for the fulfillment of your destiny!</p><p>Love, Twi-Twi</p><p>The one led by God always!</p>

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