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In Relationships • 2 min read • May 24, 2025 09:21a.m.
Don’t Chase—Align
<p style="text-align: justify; ">Sometimes we confuse chasing someone with fighting for love. But they’re not the same. Chasing often means trying to convince someone to care, while fighting for love means nurturing a connection that’s already mutual. You deserve the latter.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">When you’re the only one reaching out, overexplaining, or initiating every conversation, it’s not love—it’s effort without return. And effort without return becomes emotional exhaustion.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Real love isn’t a race. It’s not something you win by running harder. It’s something that flows when two people are aligned—not just in feelings, but in effort, timing, and emotional maturity.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">It’s okay to want someone. But if wanting them means constantly wondering where you stand, that’s not security—that’s anxiety. And love shouldn’t make you question your worth.</p><p><br></p><p>Stop chasing people who only value you when it’s convenient. You’re not here to audition for a place in someone’s life. You’re here to be chosen, appreciated, and loved out loud.</p><p><br></p><p>The right person won’t need convincing. They’ll show up. Not perfectly, but consistently. With presence, not pressure. With effort, not excuses.</p><p><br></p><p>So today, let go of chasing. Focus on aligning—with people, with peace, with the love that reflects who you are, not what you fear.</p><p><br></p>
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