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Ofonime Koko CYBER SECURITY SPECIALIST (IN TRAINING) @ TD AFRICA (TECHERDEMY)
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In Relationships • 2 min read • May 23, 2025 15:09p.m.
From Femi to Forever? My First Crush Story
<p>Let me tell you about my first love or maybe just my first real crush.&nbsp; Either way, it felt huge at the time.</p><p>&nbsp;I was in primary school, primary 2 or primary 4. One of those classes. Yes, primary school! Who would’ve thought I was already caught up in all this? But there I was, crushing on a cute boy😄 Let’s call him Femi (just because…). </p><p>Femi was my classmate, and I can’t really explain why it had to be him. Could it have been his complexion, charm, or just primary school magic? I just liked him. I even got jealous when other girls were near him. Lol, so unnecessary. </p><p>Then came inter-house sports. I was in Yellow House, he was in Red. He was the king of Red House, and another girl (a very pretty girl) was the queen. Heartbreak. </p><p>In all of this, Femi never knew I was crushing on him ( yea, sad). Not a clue. I bet he did not even notice me (laughs in confusion). I can’t even remember if I told him later. Maybe I did, maybe I didn’t. What I do know is he tried to reconnect years later (that kind of reconnect😉), but I was done. Over it. </p><p>Maybe he lost his "charm". Maybe I grew up. I saw him once after all those years, and everything I felt before was no more. Fizzled out. We tried talking, but I wasn’t interested anymore. </p><p>So, was it love? Maybe not. But back then, it felt like everything😊</p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/pexels-gustavo-fring-5621919.jpg" style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;" alt=""></p>
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