TwoCents | Love Should Precede Sex

A man can travel for eight hours 'just to have sex with a female friend and yet, not love her. Sex makes men act as if they are in love. The eight hours of travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more. The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is an art of true love. Sex is not an art of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with in bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from sex dies in minutes. It is the nature of lions to go miles to hunt, the same applies to men, a man who can afford the expenses of flying from America to Nigeria sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex. Sex drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird, as we all know sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary. People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex, most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their lives. You may as well think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for fun and that is all. Today students are now living as husbands and wives and the society we live in defines it as love. Funny but true, almost all girls that have become sex symbols end up in a deep mess, how many of them are changing the world they are into? Most have been a bad example to society and beyond. Many marriages have failed due to the mistake of switching love for the need for sex, broken homes, and domestic violence in diverse sects have no doubt caused the majority of broken homes. Sex is a one-time feeling and a minimal satisfaction, love should be a forever feeling coupled with satisfaction. Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters, never allow that erection or urge to destroy your future directions, stay positive, and a bold message to my sisters remember all the glitters are not gold don't be lured into falling for material things, don't be deceived make your future bright and start it today.

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