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In Relationships 2 min read
New-school Relationship Ideology.
Sometimes I wonder why we have to be in a relationship for a long period and still have to lose our partner to the stain of detachment. I would say from my point of view that a relationship is meant to be fulfilled to the point of marriage if there is genuine love from the onset. There is a general saying that when you are in a relationship then there is every tendency or it is compulsory you got served your share of “Breakfast”.Today's relationship is built on a timeframe or span, especially when you are no longer aligning with the terms financially, most young female adult embarks on it without a genuine motive or just for the fun of it. Buttressing the fact that most relationships ride on transactional wheels, where you see a lady in a relationship with a guy just because of what he has to offer financially, funny enough in this current dispensation some ladies stoop so low in becoming the third wives just because of these attributes and financial status. Sometimes it makes me wonder if true love does exist. If I go broke today would this lady I have spent a couple of years with want to stay with me? Has it been what I have offered recently that made her stay put? The world is drastically changing, the term love is turning to soar and tables are turning every passing day, Fact remains that the days of our forefathers were when there was genuine love and that is why our forefathers enjoyed the longevity of life compared to now. Most of our men are dying, the love is not genuine, and the demands are getting unbearable. I think it's high time I book an appointment with a relationship or marriage therapist maybe they can enlighten me on the vital steps to take, I have family and friends who have fallen victim to this boat. I felt their pain few of them could barely move on and I did not want to experience such. Getting swift answers on a pattern and strategy would do in this space too. It would be highly appreciated and followed hitherto.

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