<p>Before you start asking your questions like what, why, where, how, who, when, I think you should know what life really have in stock for you.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Life is a force that neither asks for consent nor waits for readiness. It unfolds — unpredictably, mercilessly, sometimes tenderly — but always undeniably. The phrase "Soft or hard, life happens to you in any way" is a stark reminder of life’s dual nature. There will be moments when life cradles you gently, offering comfort, success, or love when you least expect it. These soft moments are gifts — rare and soothing — but not permanent.</p><p><br></p><p>Then there are the hard times: the losses, the failures, the betrayals, the disappointments. They come uninvited, often without logic or fairness. But they do come, and they leave marks. These are not punishments; they are part of the human condition. Life doesn't choose who to go soft on and who to hit hard — it simply is. The experience of being alive is not always within your control, but your response to it is.</p><p><br></p><p>This insight calls for surrender — not in defeat, but in acceptance. To live fully is to know that softness is not guaranteed, and hardness is not always avoidable. It's to stop asking "Why me?" and start asking "What now?"</p><p><br></p><p>Life’s unpredictability teaches resilience, humility, and depth. The softness makes us feel, and the hardness makes us grow. Each extreme holds a lesson, and both are necessary to shape a whole, grounded person. So whether life whispers or roars, it is still moving, and so must we — with open eyes, an open heart, and the courage to keep going, in any weather.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>NOTE:When life is difficult and when everything turns bad,always remember that - even a Tortoise can finish a race as long as he never gives up.</p>