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Nerd Killer
Student @ Adekunle ajasin university
Ondo, Nigeria
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Stop Measuring Your Relationship with Someone Else’s Highlight Reel
<p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>We’re living in a time where love is constantly on display.</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>Perfect couples. Surprise proposals. Vacation kisses. Anniversary captions with “my person” written in gold letters.</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>And while you're lying beside someone you love—maybe with no makeup, in silence, after an argument—you start to wonder: Are we even doing this right?</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Here’s the quiet trap:</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You begin comparing your real relationship to someone else’s edited moment. Not their full story. Just the one second they decided to share. And now you’re questioning your love because it doesn’t look as shiny.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">But love doesn’t live on Instagram.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Love lives in the moments nobody sees. In the ugly arguments that end in apologies. In the deep talks that happen in the dark. In the patience it takes to heal together.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">That kind of love? It’s not aesthetic. It’s real.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The problem is:</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Comparison will starve your relationship.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You’ll stop appreciating your partner’s love language because it doesn’t look like someone else’s. You’ll forget the progress you’ve made together because another couple posts “couple goals” photos. You’ll start looking outward instead of inward—and intimacy dies there.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The solution?</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Unfollow the fantasy. Not out of hate—but out of healing. Focus on what your love feels like—not how it looks. Ask: Are we safe? Are we growing? Do we feel seen? If the answer is yes, you’re already richer than most people who only know how to pose.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And if something’s missing, address it from within, not by comparing it to strangers.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Here’s your power today:</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Don’t let your love shrink under the pressure of someone else’s performance. The most beautiful parts of love are rarely posted.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">They’re whispered. Held. Protected.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">So protect yours.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p>
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