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In People and Society • 2 min read • Jun 01, 2025 10:31a.m.
The Unspoken Truth About Men 🤔💭👨
<p><br></p><p><br></p><p>In Nigeria, a popular saying goes, "Fear men." 😳 This phrase is often echoed in conversations, memes, and music lyrics 🎶. But have we ever stopped to ask: who are men, really? 🤔 What drives their actions, and how do they behave when no one's watching? 🕵️‍♂️ Men often prioritize what they see and hear, basing their actions on logic, observation, and experience 💡. They might overlook that quiet inner voice that encourages reflection 🤫. "I see this," "I know this," "It should go this way." 🤔 Once they've formed a belief, it tends to shape their behavior across various aspects of life 🌐. In many cases, men compare their present to their past, using previous relationships or mistakes as a benchmark for judging current ones ⏰. This can be fair or unfair 🤷‍♂️. Interestingly, the notion that women are the bigger gossips is a myth 💁‍♀️. Men gossip too, often under the guise of "bro code." 🤫 They might share secrets, agree to keep them hidden, but ultimately, someone often spills the beans 💥. When something shared in confidence comes back in a negative way, it hurts 😔. Another pattern I've observed is that men often struggle to distinguish right from wrong in emotional situations 🤯. They might say,&nbsp; "I didn't know it was like this," 😳 after hurting someone or making a poor choice. This isn't always malicious, but it highlights a lack of emotional awareness or sensitivity 💔. Men are more complex than society often portrays them 🤔. There's more beneath the surface&nbsp; &nbsp;more nuance, more contradiction 🌈. Perhaps it's time to stop generalizing and start understanding them better 🤝. Not all men fit this pattern, but these are some commonalities I've noticed 👀.</p>
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