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In Relationships • 2 min read • May 24, 2025 17:09p.m.
They Know How to Love—They Just Don’t Want to Love You That Way
<p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>Let’s be real for a moment. Some people do know how to love. They know how to call, how to show up, how to apologize, how to commit, how to be present. But they’re just not doing it… for you. And that truth stings more than we ever want to admit.</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">We often convince ourselves that they’re still healing, still learning, still figuring things out. But deep down, we know the truth: if someone wanted to love you properly, they would. The effort would be visible. The care wouldn’t be conditional. You wouldn’t be left guessing.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">They’re not emotionally unavailable for everyone—they’re selectively available. And sadly, you’re the one they’re choosing to keep on the back burner. Not because you're not worthy, but because they're not willing.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Stop explaining away someone’s silence while they give the loudest energy to someone else. Stop defending their lack of clarity while they’re crystal clear with the person they truly want to be with. You deserve realness, not recycled excuses.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You don’t have to hate them. You don’t even have to be angry. But you do have to stop bending backwards for someone who won’t even reach forward. You’re not too much—you’re just not being met with someone who’s ready to match your depth.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The person who wants to love you right won’t keep you confused. They won’t make you beg for the bare minimum. They’ll love you out loud—consistently, boldly, and without second thoughts.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">So here’s your wake-up call: stop chasing clarity from someone who benefits from keeping you in the dark. The kind of love you deserve is not hiding—it’s waiting to meet you where you stand</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p>
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