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Nerd Killer Student @ Adekunle ajasin university
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In Relationships • 2 min read • May 24, 2025 09:51a.m.
You Can Outgrow People Without Hating Them
<p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>Let’s be honest—some relationships don’t end in fights, cheating, or betrayal. Some just fade. And that fading hurts in a quiet, confusing way. But here’s the thing: you can outgrow people and still wish them well.</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Sometimes, the person you once clicked with no longer speaks your language. Not because you stopped caring, but because you started growing in a direction they couldn’t follow. And that’s not betrayal. That’s life evolving.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You’re allowed to miss someone and still know they’re not meant to be in your present. You’re allowed to remember the good times and also admit the connection no longer feels right. That duality doesn’t make you fake—it makes you human.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">We often hold on because we don’t want to be seen as the one who gave up. But letting go isn’t giving up. It’s choosing peace over pressure. It’s acknowledging that loyalty to someone else should never cost you your growth.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">It’s okay to change. It’s okay to want different things than you did last year. It’s okay to feel distance growing and not force closeness just to keep the old version of something alive.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You don’t have to turn someone into a villain just to walk away. You can leave with love. You can release them with grace. And you can move forward knowing you honored what you had, while still honoring who you're becoming.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">So here’s a gentle reminder: if it no longer aligns with your growth, you can outgrow it—with love, not bitterness.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p>
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