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You maybe familiar with Franz Kafka's book The Metamorphosis. For those who are not, it's a short story which centers on the protagonist Gregor Samsa and his bizarre transformation into a bug. This transformation as you'd expect had its effect on the Samsa family. As a lover and a degree holder in literature, one of our favorite things to do when we read a literary piece, is look out for the symbolisms. Having been told the premise of the book, one would merely think that The Metamorphosis is just about Gregor's transformation. In actual sense, Kafka was more concerned about the change in family and human interaction. Before Gregor turns into a bug, he was the sole provider of his family. All responsibility rested on his shoulder. And this role came with the love and respect of the members of the family - father, mother and sister. All other members of the family did nothing to support him. This situation, however changed after he turns into a bug. Unable to work or provide, Gregor watched as each member of the family took up a job in order to feed and settle their bills. The reader comes to wonder; why none of them bothered to help him prior. Especially as he worked a job he did not really like, just to pay off his parents' debts. In addition to this, Gregor watched as the love he once received gradually turn to disdain and disgust. Being labelled a burden by his beloved sister, wasn't the worst. She suggested that they get rid of 'it'. Gregor eventually dies in his room from starvation and neglect. And his death was some sort of relief for his family. This book, exposes an aspect of human interaction - love under the condition of being able to provide. Often, we slave away to provide for the ones we love. We may think that we are the only hope they have, and therefore do everything in our power to meet their needs. But humans are not indispensable. If anything happens to us, the ones we think are hopeless without us, move on. They find a means to survive, humans always do. Also, a provider today can become a burden tomorrow, when he isn't able to provide anymore. Life is unpredictable, nothing is assured. No condition is permanent. Can we say certainly, that the people we help today would in turn help us tomorrow? Kafka uses Gregor's transformation as a symbolism to pass across a deep and thought provoking message. Unlike the main character, we should seek to do what makes us happy, while we aim to do good for others. Sometimes, it's okay to put yourself first. A little occasional selfishness could be necessary. Because if anything happens to you, life goes on. Nobody can be blamed for it, that is just the way it is.

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What are the Most Common Mistakes Made By Beginners When Getting Into Health & Fitness? Starting a health and fitness journey can be an exciting and fulfilling experience, but it can also be overwhelming, especially for beginners. It's important to avoid common mistakes that can hinder progress and cause frustration. In this comprehensive guide, we will explore the top 10 mistakes made by beginners when getting into health and fitness and provide tips on how to avoid them. Mistake 1 - Not Establishing Clear Goals One of the most common mistakes made by beginners is failing to set clear and realistic goals. Setting goals is an important first step in any fitness journey as it provides a sense of direction and motivation. It's essential to create specific, measurable, and attainable goals and track progress regularly to ensure success. Mistake 2 - Not Eating Properly Proper nutrition is a crucial aspect of health and fitness and should not be overlooked. Beginners often make the mistake of not paying enough attention to their diet or following fad diets that are not sustainable. To achieve long-term success, it's important to adopt healthy eating habits and create a balanced and nutritious meal plan that fits individual needs and goals. Mistake 3 - Failing to Design an Effective Workout Plan Another common mistake is not having a structured workout plan. Beginners often jump into exercises without considering their current fitness level or the types of workouts that are best suited to their goals. To avoid this, it's essential to design an effective workout plan that is challenging, yet manageable, and gradually progress as fitness improves. Mistake 4 - Not Considering Your Motivation Level Staying motivated can be a challenge, especially when starting a new fitness journey. It's important to consider your motivation level and find activities that you enjoy to increase the likelihood of sticking to your workout plan. Mistake 5 - Overdoing it Too Soon Overtraining can be a major setback in a fitness journey. Beginners often make the mistake of doing too much too soon and not allowing their bodies enough time to recover. It's important to avoid overtraining and progressively increase the intensity and duration of workouts to prevent injury. Mistake 6 - Not Staying Consistent Consistency is key in any fitness journey. Beginners often struggle with sticking to their workout and nutrition plans, leading to burnout and decreased progress. To avoid this, it's important to make fitness a lifestyle and find ways to integrate physical activity and healthy eating into daily routines. Mistake 7 - Not Incorporating Variety Incorporating variety into workouts can prevent boredom and enhance progress. Beginners often make the mistake of sticking to one type of exercise, leading to plateaus and decreased motivation. It's important to incorporate different types of exercises and activities into a fitness plan to challenge the body and prevent boredom. Mistake 8 - Not Getting Enough Sleep and Rest Getting enough sleep and allowing time for rest and recovery is crucial for progress in health and fitness. Beginners often overlook the importance of sleep and rest, leading to fatigue and decreased performance. It's important to prioritize sleep and make it a non-negotiable part of a health and fitness routine. Mistake 9 - Not Monitoring Progress and Adjusting Accordingly Regularly monitoring progress and adjusting workout and nutrition plans as needed is important for continued progress. Beginners often neglect to track progress and make necessary changes, leading to stagnant progress. To avoid this, it's important to track progress and make adjustments as needed to ensure continued progress towards health and fitness goals. Mistake 10 - Comparing Yourself to Others Comparing oneself to others is a common mistake made by beginners and can lead to negative self-talk and decreased motivation.

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I wasn't sure how to start this post, I'm sort of just going with the flow - but what I want to share is an experience I had about 25 years ago when my family and I used to live in Moscow, Russia. It was a short experience, it involved a Russian boy and a certain weird question. For some reason the question stayed with me for years - it was spoken innocently and ignorantly and in the moment I didn't really think about it - but I'd later go on to ponder on it. Given that this happened in a completely different global socio-cultural climate, I'm also being careful as I write to not pass on the wrong message, that this isn't a cry of victimhood or affirmation of victim mentality, but simply to shed light on a past reality.<img src="/media/inline_insight_image/two-hands-united-middle-diversity.jpg" alt="">  On a certain evening in 1998, I was playing with my siblings in the corridor of this building where we held midweek services - my parents were missionaries in Russia at the time and had started 4 churches around Moscow. The branch we were at consisted mainly of Africans who lived around Moscow while the other branches had mostly Russian members - having a black person start churches and pastor Russians in post-communist Russia was unheard of, but I'd like to think God gave my dad the grace to do so, anyway that's another story. So, it was midweek service and my siblings and I were playing in the corridor, when this Russian boy walked towards us with this look on his face that said "I'd like to play with you guys". We welcomed him with open arms, we could all speak Russian (I still can) so we started talking and running up and down the corridor. Then at the end of it all, when it was time for us to go in for the service, the boy turned to us, having had a good time, filled with confusion and excitement, said in Russian "Pochyemoo anyi tibya ni meelee" which translates roughly as "Why were you not washed". Before I go on I'd like to share another account of this story I once wrote; here it is: "Several times over the course of my life I’ve used my knowledge of languages to break the ice in conversations or dispel erroneous notions about who black people are – it always works, like magic; it worked on multiple occasions during my time in Russia where people would meet me at the store, in the park, on the Metro (subway) with my family, and expect the worst because of a certain pre-conceived notion they had, but then there’d be an abrupt, noticeable change in attitude, once I’d speak their language…and they’d stop, and be forced to re-evaluate all they’d been inundated with – they were, inundated with a lot of inane stuff. Proof of that is one time in Moscow, at the church we attended (it had several branches, but this particular one was an all-black church), my siblings and I were playing in the corridor (it was a very long corridor, the building used to be an officer’s mess) with this Russian boy and at the point where we had to go in, he turned to me, having had a good time with genuinely cool unpretentious people, asked me, in slight bewilderment…” Pochyemoo anyee tibya nye milee…” That translates roughly to ‘Why weren’t you washed’ (when you were born – which was the unsaid, implied part). For the life of me I can’t remember what I said to him, but such was the level of ignorance that existed at that time in those parts…this was maybe 1997 or 1998." <img src="/media/inline_insight_image/vebebveb.jpg" alt=""> You could tell that there was no malice in his mind, he said it with such genuine concern, almost like saying "when you get home, tell your parents to wash you", so you'd look like me. Like I said, I didn't think anything of it at the time - but it stayed with me. This was a rather pleasant experience if you would believe it, over the 10 years I spent in Russia so many nasty things happened - you see, racism in Russia is quite different from racism in the US - it isn't systemic, it has no history of slavery, Jim Crow, mass incarceration, police brutality or disenfranchisement...it is just good (bad) old racism, you know. But just like in the US (and anywhere else), it's location-dependent; for example, the fewer the number of foreigners in a city, obviously the higher the chance you'd encounter racism. At the time Moscow was becoming more and more international as Russia opened its doors after the fall of the Soviet Union, but there was still A LOT of racism. I often wonder if we can ever live in a colourbind world, where you aren't judged by the colour of your skin but the content...you know, all that warm, fuzzy stuff MLK said. <img src="/media/inline_insight_image/vqervqvqv.png" alt=""> I'm pretty immune to it at this point, I just, you know, keep on living and doing all I can to correct preconceived notions. If you've got any similar 'interesting' experiences, be sure to drop them in the comments. Oh and, the title of this post was inspired by "Colourblind", a song by Counting Crows, check it out if you don't know it, it's pretty nice. Thanks for reading!! (edited)

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Political campaigns in Nigeria always produce the most surreal promises from candidates and their spokespersons. I remember growing up hearing jokes about a candidate that promised to “fire” and “water” his constituents (promising electricity and pipe-borne water). Jokes apart, it was only 8 years ago that APC promised us ₦1 = $1, to pay every unemployed Nigerian youth ₦5,000 monthly, and create 10 million jobs. Of course, today, the Dollar is pushing for ₦1,000 = $1, we never saw the ₦5,000, and as for the 10 million jobs…the less we speak, the better for our hearts. Even now, the same party that delivered 3 recessions, and only one-time 3% GDP growth year for 7 years is back to promise us 10% GDP growth for the next 4 years. So it is clear: politicians will say anything to win elections. And nobody knows this more than the supporters of the 2 big political parties. When you listen to them speak, you begin to think; if they’re so negative about what can be possible with a regime change, why do they fight so much to ensure their candidates win? The zeal surely is not out of a desire to see a working country. Because if it were, they should be the loudest proponents of possibilities. But they instead focus on how difficult it is to change things. Which indicates that it’s all about winning for them. Because let's tell ourselves the truth: the present government has performed abysmally. And drastic change is needed. Yet, the runup to the 2023 general elections has revealed even more wonders. For the first time, there is a leading candidate who has enjoyed the absolute-type powers of an executive office, yet whose detractors don’t have a corruption case against him. Instead, they oppose him because his plans are “unassailable”. “Unrealistic”. “Impossible”. “Governance is rocket science,” is the quip very often made on Twitter by senior public policy expert, Dr Joe Abah. It is important to note that he started saying this under the current APC government. He has worked with at least 2 Nigerian presidents and many more governors to implement their policies. He’s experienced, so he must know more than me on the matter. But then Mr Peter Obi comes along and makes promises that clearly translate to overhauling the political landscape. The man is promising new things, and speaking like they’re achievable. So who do we believe? The political experts who see good governance as normal for Western Nations, but “rocket science” for Nigeria? Or the former governor, who has experience making executive decisions and implementing policy? In this situation, the onus is on the man making promises to prove that he can fulfill them. And no, we won’t take his words alone now. We’ll look at his past records, and juxtapose them with Nigeria’s present issues. So let’s take a look at some: Issue 1: Nigeria has 20 million out-of-school children, and a poor educational system. Record: Before Peter Obi became governor of Anambra state, Anambra state was 26th in National academic performance. During campaign, he vowed to resign if he did not fix Anambra state education problem (November 26, 2002 All Africa News reports). By the end of his tenure, he had successfully moved Anambra from 26th nationally to 1st for 3 years running in educational performance. Out of school children also became the lowest in the nation at 6.6%. Verdict: Possible to correct Issue 2: Nigeria is insecure and vulnerable to attacks in every zone from terrorists, bandits, kidnappers and armed militia. Record: Before his emergence as governor, Anambra state used to be the kidnapping and bank robbery capital of Nigeria. By the time he was leaving office, the Inspector General of Police reckoned that for Mr Peter Obi’s last 5 years in office, the state had been the safest in the country, with no attempted bank robberies (April 11, 2014; The Nation News report). This means that he solved the security issue within 3 years. Verdict: Possible to solve Issue 3: We are in debt and have no money to develop unless we incur more loans (according to the present government). Record: On assumption of office as governor, Anambra state was owing ₦35 billion in pension and salary debts. Development was slow or non-existent in all sectors, and contractors were not being paid. He cut the cost of governance, streamlined budgets, and plugged the holes through which government money leaked. By the time he was leaving office, Anambra was not owing any debts whatsoever, even to staff, suppliers and contactors. He constructed 900km of roads and critical bridges (the equivalent of the road distance between Lagos to Abuja), renovated over all government schools and equipped them, funded farmers, security agencies, and many more. He also left tens of Billions in cash and investsments. All without taking a kobo of loan. Verdict: No better person to solve it than this man. I could talk about how his campaign is uniting well-meaning Nigerians across all tribes and zones. And how there’s a rising wave of positive patriotism and newfound belief in the hearts of Nigerians as a result of his emergence. Or how his record of setting up Anambra to be a place where industries can thrive shows that Nigeria can indeed move from “Consumption to Production" under him. Look, the man has said it: he wants to retire the political system that has numbed Nigerians to hope and faith. He has done it before in Anambra, where his reforms made Chief Chris Uba, a former political godfather and rogue who installed the previous 2 governors Mbadinuju and Ngige to become a renowned Town Crier – who went everywhere complaining about Mr Peter Obi’s “stinginess”. And so dear Nigerians, if there’s anybody able to demystify rocket science (aka governance) in Nigeria, it is Mr Peter Obi. And the time is now.

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When I was much younger, I was seriously stubborn. This may come as a surprise to many who know me now. You may think it's the conventional stubborness, but I can assure you that if it hadn't been for God, my parents' prayers, and a change of heart, I would have become THANOS! Reflecting on some of my mischievous deeds often leaves me wondering what was wrong with me back then. I would like to share some details about those vices and my journey to having sense, but you see, the Internet never forgets and I have plans to blow in this life! Oh, and I also stand the chance of getting arrested! Who stabs his colleague in the eyes at a young age? Definitely not me! I've come to terms with the fact that my actions and inactions were a product of my ignorance and my environment. I grew up in "Akai Nyoho" in Eket, Akwa Ibom State. The direct translation of Akai Nyoho is "a forest area," and yes, it wasn't the tush area of town. When we eventually moved to civilization and I changed schools, some changes in my behavior became noticeable! It wasn't immediate though. One of the things I can now say with my full chest is the fact that peer pressure in my new environment was limited. I could barely access it! My previous association wasn't utterly terrible; in fact, it was cool to me, but then it had affected me a lot and it was all I had. Later on, I improved academically, and as we say in Nigeria, "I came to get sense small." I even became a "Senior Prefect" in my new school. I still don't understand how I became a senior prefect because Omooooooo! This is not me shading those I knew before all this seemingly good change happened or cancelling my previous school/environment. I know people from that same Akai Nyoho who turned out great, so this ain't shading. The point to note is that my choices and actions got better as my climate changed. As my association changed, I really did become a better version of myself. I believe a lot of people are somehow stagnated by their associations. You have plans you'd like to work on, but somehow your friends limit you or the plans are not realistic in your current environment. When people can't share in your vision, they may not know how to help you realize it. Your valid dreams are not valid everywhere. Put differently, your valid dreams may become invalid due to your climate. It could be difficult, but it's okay to leave. You have to be intentional about your growth. It's okay to burn bridges when you've secured a boat! Lol. Don't remain unequally yoked. Sometimes we rise by leaving others. Learn Unlearn Relearn

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Modern social courtesy demands that we be economical with opinions and judgement - even if it is the truth. Gone are the days were the honesty was encouraged irrespective of whose Ox is gored. It's 'growth', and 'development', so I guess I have to live with it right? But just before I go on with living with it, permit me a few minutes to bare my mind. What the hell?! Where are we going to as a people if we see black and can't call it black because a certain group would be offended with that accuracy? How do we learn from mistakes if pointing out said mistakes makes one a 'prude'? This woke nonsense has to stop!  Liberalism and conservatism would always be at loggerheads. Both of them have their strengths and shortcomings - but nobody never accepts that with liberalism. One of the most championed mantras of liberalism is 'live and let live'. While that makes a lot of sense and proposes freedom, mankind simply cannot live and let live. Because living and letting to live has the possibility of offending the natural order of things, and should be called out at this point. A ready example that comes to mind is dress code/sense. There is this ideology spawning among us that clothes are a means to express ourselves and hence nobody should be criticized for whatever they choose to wear. Come on! This makes zero sense. Clothes are not always a means of self expression because different places demand specific dress codes. You cannot walk into an office in a bikini can you? Well given the way things are going, one might be able to do that. There was a social media post about a lady who was sent away from an interview based on her dressing and choice of clothing. Annoyingly, some people expressed their dissatisfaction and maligned the interviewer for infringing on her rights.While there were thankfully others who were bold enough to call it for what it is - a fault on the applicant's part, the mere fact that it was a debate was just appalling. It's same thing with revealing clothes being worn out in public places or functions. An air of discomfort lingers but no one wants to say anything, because they're afraid to look a certain way. Children shouldn't be exposed to indecent exposure - we know this much, but somehow we let it slide because wokeism. Look, I'm not against freedom of self expression - hell, my career demands it. However, we should be able to draw a line and say enough when it's clearly gotten out of hand. This is why I appreciate the likes of Andrew Tate, and Jordan Peterson. Say what you want about those men (especially Andrew), but their willingness to offend sensitivities is badly needed. The world is going left so fast that we need people who aren't scared to raise an alarm. A very sensitive yet crucial topic people are scared to speak on, is gender/identity politics. For example, only a handful of people warn about hormone blocking drugs and its side effects when more awareness is needed on it. The threat of cancel culture has shut role models and individuals with influence from speaking against abnormalities that are being paraded as the norm. Thankfully men like Andrew and Jordan constantly resist the efforts to be silenced - shout out to the others in this class. We cannot keep putting sensitivities over truth. Neither can we continue to give into the gaslighting that aims to validate wrongs as 'personal choices'. Should we continue like it, mankind could become so jaded that the lines between good and evil, what is acceptable and what is not; would become to blurred to distinguish. And when it gets to that point, we would all be in trouble.

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The other day I posed a question to my WhatsApp contacts. I asked if the struggle for equality is leading to another form of gender imbalance. It was nice to get a couple of different perspectives on the topic. However, my personal opinion? - in a way, it has. We have to applaud the efforts made to kick out gender discrimination and inequality. Modern times has allowed and encouraged women to pursue goals and ambitions, without the obstruction of gender. Women have made their presence felt in careers and industries, previously known to be male exclusive. There are a lot of empowerment programs, set up to assist women in different areas of specialization. Indeed all these are commendable. But, in the midst of this progress made, we may be unaware of another growing problem - the neglect and apathy towards the male gender. Personally, I believe that if we can attain true equity, and eradicate discrimination; we should give equal attention to both genders. Otherwise, what we would end up doing is tilting the scale, rather than balancing it. In society today, we have boys who have been made to feel neglected and unguided. There seems to be a lack of societal support available to the male gender. For all the new ideologies and approaches to gender inequality, the idea of masculinity, remains the same. This affects the ability to adapt to a changing world for most men. If you think about it, when last did you came across an empowerment program strictly for men? In the society today, there are a lot of men who could use such programs, but their unavailability, poses a serious problem. There is so much focus on the girl child, that it begins to veer into the territory of overcompensation. And I understand that, given the issues of gender inequality, which mostly affects women. But to really solve the problem, there should be a balance. Boys could really use a good measure of attention and guidance. In a bid to cater and avail solutions to the problems of the girl child, sometimes we can become oblivious to the struggles of the boy child. Overcompensation is not a balance. It is rather another form of imbalance. Attention to both genders is the catalyst that is much needed in the fight against gender inequality.

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So let's talk about the very thing that drives our society Yeah, it has basically become an evangelism topic; "love yourself", "nobody matters except you", "you are the prize" and all the bla bla bla. It has seemingly become comical at this point, because we seem to have conflated its meaning and produced a bunch of egocentric, reprehensible and emotionally unavailable disciples to the cause. Is loving yourself really about the good or the hurt? Of anything, I think this advice stems from a lot of hurt people. Humans are social beings and whether we accept it or not, we were made to be dependent on each other. We work better in droves than alone. You probably have heard the saying, "if you want to go fast, go alone, but if you want to go far, go together". It reiterates that more can be achieved when people work together, instead of against each other. How then do you combine your self love with working together? At least this version being pushed,because if you think about it, this version is more about "self", "you", and if you do not gain from being involved in any process, you don't give your all. Now, that may not be all bad, but imagine a billion people doing the same thing. I might be going too far, imagine out of 10 people, 9 are using this version, how does that pan out? Do you really think the world would be much better that way? Someone that would have said something favourable about you to get that job, decides not to, because it doesn't benefit him. Yeah, someone who loses nothing when you decide to give them a break because that person doesn't want to change for the better. Yes, we get it, people are like leeches and tend to use you till their heart's content, but would that continually define you? Dedicate yourself to someone who would appreciate it and pour into you as you would them. Or let us even talk about a certain community that tends to use this as a bullying tactic. No, I am not insulting the trans community but I really want to understand why you would think loving yourself means spending money to transform what you were beautifully and wonderfully made with? I'm sure some makeup apathists would come here to muzz me but those two don't relate, as makeup improves what already exists, while the other process's shatters the very core of who you are. And if we want to bring makeup, we can bring other things like brushing your teeth, bathing, workouts and so much more. I'm sure you can understand where I am coming from You may be wondering what self love means to me. Well, it is good health, upskilling, helping others, belief in God and a purpose, not allowing negativity seep in, integrity, gratitude, friendship, good thoughts, great life. Basically, as Freddie Mercury's papa used to say "good thoughts, good words, good deeds".Oh, by the way, "self" and "love" do not mix.Just be selfish and own it, cus that's what it entails What is your definition of self-love?

THE EVANGELISM OF SELF LOVE

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Hero James

Lagos • 2 years, 5 months ago

From an unpopular opinion, there's a tiny line between what most people perceive as self-love and selfishness.

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There is a gender war going on, and I believe by now everyone is aware of this. To those however who are not aware, a trip to social media is more than sufficient to convince you. Hardly a day goes by on the social media space, without encountering posts pitting the male vs female genders against one another. Believe me, it is annoying. Soldiers one both sides argue against the privileges of the other side, while refusing to accept their own privileges. Truth is both genders have their privileges and their drawbacks. The question is what is stopping us from acknowledging this? My answer is apathy. Apathy is basically the lack of sympathy towards from one person or group, towards another. It is the lack of concern or interest to things or people around you. In the gender war, this is the biggest dividing force. When one party refuses to acknowledge the concerns of another, we do nothing to alleviate it. There by, increasing the strain in relationship between both parties. With apathy, a man who complains about the societal pressures to provide, is countered by a woman who complains about the pressures of keeping the home. No one genuinely listens to the other, rather it devolves into an argument of "who suffer pass". No one looks to see how they can help ease the grievances or pressures on the other. It is rather a 'carry your cross' affair. Take a look at posts on apps like Twitter or Instagram, highlighting a particular gender's challenges. Such posts are turned quickly into a battle ground for the male vs female war. The truth is, you cannot expect sympathy from others, if you do not also show sympathy. Perhaps if there is a measure of empathy between both parties, we would edge closer to a ceasefire in this obnoxious gender war. Empathy allows us to feel for others, to sympathize with them. The need for empathy in our society, cannot be over emphasized. The ability to put the feelings of others into consideration, makes for a better relationship. Men, as well as women, should know this. Listen genuinely to the grievances of the other party, respect their feelings; this leads to yours being respected as well. I hope we realize and accept this soon, because I am sure we are all exhausted with the numerous daily battles between genders, across social media.

In Relationships • 2 min read • Jun 08, 2022 20:23p.m.

APATHY: THE MOST POTENT FUEL IN THE OBNOXIOUS GENDER WAR

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What if I told you that Independence was a scam? That the labour of our heroes' past though honoured and hallowed forever in our Nation's story was a lie, a play on the grand stage of Global politics.  In school, I was taught about multiple tipping points that led to the successful fight for independence; one being the education of prominent citizens who fought the white men for independence, another being that our participation in foreign wars made us see through the mysticism that was the powerful white man. We saw that they were indeed mortals, mere flesh and blood. But over the years of reading, I have come to realise that like every good story, history is easily rewritten, edited and also can easily be made up. To understand what happened and get the full story, we need to zoom out and expand our lens past the geography of Nigeria and see the world like the colonialists saw it, a chessboard with moving pieces and parts; i.e. any nation that wasn't predominantly white or European. Because there were 2 races at that time; the powerful whites and every other primitive inferior one.  Like the fight for intelligence, nuclear power or the space race, they competed for who had the most colonies. In that era, colonises signified power in the form of resources. After the abolition of slavery, they had to go for the next best thing, natural resources and if they could also get the minds of the best of that race working for them indirectly, was it really a loss? They played the game of benevolent masters or vindictive and spiteful lords, depending on which got the job done, or which was more economically feasible. Because you see, wars have always been costly; preparing ammunition, paying men enough to risk their lives, providing food, water and welfare, and then shipping all these to a faraway land was a venture not to be taken lightly, especially if the reward was not high. So, this was a period where the powers that be and European nations shared sovereign nations like a slice of pie, some getting the indigenes to sign documents which literally said they were under the protection of the colonial master. Just like gangsters telling you to pay protection money, except this document was a proof of ownership. They showed the other European nations the document and it meant "They are mine, stay clear." These were the rules of engagement among them, breaching it meant war because the first rule is "do not mess with the money."  A beautiful book I read called "A Peace to End All Peace" by David Fromkin speaks beautifully on how the British and other nations fought for and carved up the Ottoman Empire into what we now know as the Modern Middle East. Most importantly, it gave me an insight into why the British had to re-strategise their approach in other colonies, this is because those in the Middle East fought them nonstop. So they kept needing to move men around to recapture and defend territories that they had occupied. It costs them time, money and infrastructure. They made deals and counter-deals with different clans and even blood relatives, turning brother against brother and even father against son. Then there was World War II, which put a massive strain on the power structure and world order. They used every resource available to them, including their colonies, conscripting them in a war that didn't directly affect them. The agitation, scuffles and struggles to put out the multiple fires in the different British colonies had left them stretched thin. America spoke against the colony arrangement and a new agreement was made. The colonial masters were to pull out and give back sovereignty to the nations. But before they left, they had one more card up their sleeves.

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Queensley Okon

Ota • 2 years, 5 months ago

So true. Sympathy begets sympathy and in turn, peace. Nailed it

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Since the creation of the internet, the world has gradually become a global village. The advent of digital media like social media sites makes this village even smaller. The likes of Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and WhatsApp have evolved the manner in which information is shared as they are now the main means of disseminating information. The unique features these social media sites come with, make them really popular and it seems almost everyone with a smart phone has at least one social media account. The most popular of them seems to be Twitter, as it has little restrictions unlike the others. We live in a very fast-paced world nowadays and people can’t be bothered to spend a lot of time reading blogs or full-length news articles. Thus, the birth of microblogging—allowing people to share their thoughts or information in 280 characters. Twitter has the effect of giving people the feeling of being neighbours in a virtual street. Everyone and anyone with an account is accessible. Twitter encourages a high level of interaction with people all over the world even without any form of personal relationship. You don't have to know a person directly or be on their friends' list to have an interaction with their content. One could literally be in Nigeria have people in America interacting with their content. Although on social media, ordinary people can speak to anyone, even those in power without fear or favour but it goes a notch further on Twitter. Tweeps as Twitter users are called enjoy some form of identity protection as they can use pseudonyms as account names if they wish. Ordinary people have dared to call out, insult and even expose president's, politicians in general and large organisations and gone unscathed as these tweeps are largely untraceable. A lot of companies use Twitter to provide instant customer support. It provides faster communication lines than traditional support via phone. Twitter’s popularity as the go-to source of real-time news worldwide is the top reason why people visit the social networking site. It’s a popular outlet to report breaking news. Traditional marketing is not enough these days to maintain brand visibility in line with the business' target audience. Social media platforms play a huge role when it comes to promoting products and connecting with customers. Twitter remains a popular social media platform for marketers. All of this contributes to it's huge popularity and this is supported by the statistics. It is said that Twitter has some 330 million active users (MAU) based on its last reported data that leveraged this metric in the 1st quarter of 2019. As of 2020, Twitter’s monetizable daily active users (mDAU) stands at 166 million, which represents a 24% growth from 2019. Meanwhile, in the US alone, Twitter has 69.3 million active users as of January 2021. In Nigeria, Twitters popularity and usefulness was put to the test when it was used to organise the famous EndSars protest of 2020. That protest was one unlike the country has ever witnessed before, as the protest was coordinated in the 36 States of the federation and the FCT basically on Twitter. Dates, venues, safety tips, warnings and all were all passed on Twitter. Nigerians defied odds, disregarded ethno-religious sentiments and banded together to protest bad governance and oppression. It is that same energy that many Nigerians are bringing into the 2023 elections and have been using social media platforms especially Twitter, to campaign for their respective candidates. One candidate's popularity seems to visibly soar above that of others and many people, probably out of concern or rather fear keep pointing out that it's just social media hype. They say the supporters of Peter Obi are only on social media and not "on ground". To this, I reply, are the owners of these accounts not real people? Mr. Obi's supporters are touted to only be on social media, yet you find photos and videos of those running campaigns for him from their offices, homes, on the streets and in the markets, sensitising others on the need to register for and get their PVCs. Social media support is unreal and only virtual, yet other candidates seem to be making extra effort to have a social media presence. It is being rumoured that a certain candidate has recruited a number of influencers to help boost his popularity while undermining that of his opponents. Whatever anyone says, it is obvious that social media is the real deal and the candidates are doing everything to court the attention of the Nigerians online and improve their ratings as this would have a huge effect on the elections.

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The hype of December is the very sponsor of the dread of January. But upon closer examination, January is such an underrated darling. I mean, with the noise of celebration now safely behind us, you'd have to admit, there's a calmness about the pace of life; the tension and pressure now a ship swallowed in the distant horizon. Many are making the slow return from their cloud nine trip back to reality, to the here and now. Words floated in hushed whisperings that January would reign without mercy, dishing out consequences of a squandered December. Those who foresaw time, predicted that January would stretch out like many months compressed in one. They expected hunger, cases of protracted emptiness of pockets and accounts. The 9-5ers who earn their keep from salaries count the days that lead up to the blissful arrival of the end of the month. As each day passes by, they are consoled and even motivated to hang in there. Slowly but surely, slowly but surely. Those who have embraced the risk-riddled world of entrepreneurship take deep sighs as they reminisce the days when sales came in quick successions. They blame January and exonerate December. January has to be the least loved of months. But it is, in all candour, the captain of the others in its trail. In a calm command, it directs the year and others only but respond, 'aye'. For all the assumptions drenched in error about January, I erect a case for the month of months. For some, it is a descent that feels like a hangover from a night of wild partying, but January is a subtle crescendo, somewhat a slow swelling of goals to full maturity. It is the consistency of January that partly guarantees a continuance of the journey to a blissful realization of desires. As if they can't wait for January to fade away, online vendors begin to fan the flames of a far-away Valentine's Day. Everything starts wearing red again; this time, it is not of a Christmas kind. And just like that, the idyllic ambience, a gift offering from January begins to give way as people craft for themselves a fresh means of disturbance. The pressure on relationships to look perfect starts heating up and boiling point draws near. Right before our very eyes, we see January ambushed by the preparation for Valentine's Day. It makes it feel as if February began somewhere in January, making the 28 days as we have always known it to be, a sham.

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It cannot be overstated that the present Nigerian political set up is unprecedented. The run up to the 2023 elections is exciting as well as thrilling. Elections in Nigeria have never been issue based. It has rather been reserved for the strongest and richest candidate, with ethnic sentiments being a major driver. When it's time for elections, political parties and their candidates switch to transaction mood. They don't discuss pertinent issues. They most times don't even have manifestos. They only make promises without a clear cut plan of achieving them, then wait for elections to share money to the populace in exchange for their votes. Money which they acquired from the raping of our collective treasury. This has only succeeded in producing mediocre candidates. Nigeria being a nascent democracy, which just escaped years of draconian and repressive military rule. Nigerians were probably still caught up in the euphoria of the freedom and benefits a democracy promised to begin demanding for the best. There seems to be another factor, but it's more psychological. The generation who actively lived through the military rule probably got used to things being a certain way and accepted it as normal. They gave up their fight and permitted the military autocracy to permeate into our democracy. One can say our democracy is maturing, but in reality it is the older generation phasing out and the newer generation who were born either after military rule or towards the end of military rule who were too young to understand what was happening. They most likely had only read or heard about it. They have seen, read and witnessed how democracy is supposed to be practised and want to enjoy same. It is this demography of people, basically youths who are standing up to say "No! Enough is enough". The run up to the 2015 elections seemed to be the first signs of this maturity. Despite the fact that the Buhari era is actually worse off and in comparison to that of Goodluck Jonathan, makes Jonathan look so good. In all honesty, the Goodluck Jonathan era was just as bad. Corruption and ineptitude was rife, the only difference is that it was not so brazen as it is now, but the government of Goodluck Jonathan was just as bad. Buhari and the APC who were in the opposition then, took advantage of the failings of the Jonathan government and his attendant disenchantment from the populace. They centered their campaign on Jonathan's biggest failing which was corruption and this gave them the support of the people. Nigerians massively voted against Jonathan. For the first time in the history of our democracy, an incumbent president lost an election. Again, they only promised to make the situation better, but never outlined for the people, a clear cut plan to achieve this and fight corruption. The result has been devastating. It was a mistake on our part as a people, but if we don't make mistakes, how do we learn? It seems we've learnt, as Nigerians are no longer satisfied with just promises, but are now demanding our presidential candidates to give us a road map to achieving their El Dorado in Nigeria. Our mistakes have made us wiser! Political maturity is beginning to grow roots.

In Politics • 3 min read • Oct 29, 2022 07:52a.m.

MISTAKES HAVE MADE US WISER, MORE POLITICALLY MATURE

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"Air is the element of freedom. The Air Nomads detached themselves from worldly concerns and found peace and freedom." Imagine a world where buildings breathe in harmony with the wind, where structures seem to defy gravity, reaching for the boundless sky. This is the world of the Air Nomads in Avatar: The Last Air Bender, a civilization where architecture transcends mere function and becomes a testament to their core air bending values. Unlike the imposing fortresses of the Earth Kingdom or the aggressive flames embodied in the Fire Nation's structures, the Air Temples are a different narrative altogether. Crafted from wood and bamboo, these mountaintop havens celebrate openness, sustainability, and a profound connection with nature. They are a physical manifestation of the Air Nomads' moral compass and emphasis on peace and harmony. Throughout history, societies have left their mark on the world not just through their actions and ideals, but also through the physical structures they have built. Architecture serves as a fascinating window into a civilization's soul, reflecting their values, priorities, and relationship with the world around them. The grandeur of a palace might speak of a society that prizes hierarchy and power, while the sturdiness of a fortress could signify a focus on security and defence. In the same way, the design choices of the Air Nomads – from the selection of materials to the placement of the temples themselves – offer a profound insight into their core principles. In the Avatar: The Last Air Bender series, we are introduced to four Nations comprising individuals who can manipulate one of the fundamental elements each; The elements are water, Fire, Earth and Air. These Four nations each move through different political states and have varying levels of industrialisation and development, but everything in their respective borders is shaped by the element of the nation and the values they are most predisposed to as a result. The air nomads are a people of peace and spirituality; they have detached themselves from worldly concerns and are focused on living in harmony with the natural world. This way of life is expressed in all of their dwelling places across the Northern, Eastern Southern, and Western Air Temples; Towering and awesome structures weave their way into the clouds along and atop the sides of Mountains detached from the world below.  Values Reflected in Architecture Having a closer look at the architecture, we can observe the way it shapes and is in turn shaped by the principles of its oft-wandering inhabitants. In the Air temples, the walls of the expansive chambers are adorned with murals telling stories and teachings of air bending and philosophy; Sunlight streams through large windows, illuminating the polished wood floors and casting dancing shadows on the intricately woven tapestries. Gone are the heavy stone walls and imposing gates found in other nations; instead, light wooden pillars rise towards the sky, supporting multi-tiered roofs that seem, although tethered to the mountain, to yearn for the heavens; the first prevalent values are openness and Flow. The Large rooms have shared spaces and a minimal presence of walls. This openness is not merely aesthetic; it reflects the Air Nomads' commitment to peace and non-violence. The absence of confined spaces discourages feelings of aggression, and selfishness fostering a sense of freedom, togetherness and tranquility that mirrors the flow of the element they bend.The second Main tenet of the people of the Air Nation is a harmonious existence with nature. To achieve this harmony they meditate spiritually every day, connecting with the state of the physical world and the spirit realm; Meditation chambers, small and secluded nooks, provide solace for quiet reflection, a cornerstone of the Air Nomad way of life. Beyond the main temples, specialised structures support the other daily activities. Training grounds with obstacle courses and platforms facilitate the development of physical air-bending skills while also promoting mental discipline and respect for the power they are entrusted with. These training grounds are often open-air spaces, reinforcing the connection with nature and fostering a sense of freedom during practice. Air benders, like air, move unencumbered, and freely through all obstacles even with a firm discipline. Their spaces are attuned to this. Because of the desire to be one with Nature, the permanent and more temporary structures are all made with sustainable materials and are built into the readily available terrain. Training grounds sprawl across the mountainside, not as imposing battlefields, but as obstacle courses crafted from natural materials. Platforms for training turned playgrounds, and ramps for glider launches seem to merge seamlessly with the environment jutting out from the mountainside. Everything not carved from the cold steadfast mountains is built from warm wood and resilient bamboo; materials readily available and minimally processed at the expense of the local ecology. Renewable materials and their construction techniques, likely relying on traditional carpentry and joinery methods, demonstrate a profound understanding of working with, not against, the environment.Influences From the Real WorldThe Air Temples draw heavily from real-world architectural traditions, particularly those of East Asia. The towering pagodas with their multi-tiered roofs strongly resemble structures found in China and Japan. These pagodas served as religious and educational centres, mirroring the dual purpose of the Air Temples as both monasteries and training grounds for Air Nomads. Another influence is the concept of Tibetan sky monasteries, built on precarious mountain cliffs. This reflects the Air Nomads' preference for high altitudes, allowing them to live in harmony with the element they bend and practice their aerial techniques. The monasteries' dependence on natural elements for light and ventilation also resonates with the Air Nomads' philosophy of living in balance with nature. The Air Temples transcend mere structures; they are a testament to the enduring power of morality to shape the physical world. By understanding how the Air Nomads' values are woven into the very fabric of their architecture, we can gain valuable insights into how design choices can promote a more peaceful and sustainable future. Bridging Worlds: From Fantasy to Reality This essay serves as the first chapter in a series exploring the architectural expression of values in the Four Nations of Avatar: The Last Air bender. Each nation, defined by its element, embodies distinct morals. By delving into the architecture of the Air Nomads, Earth Kingdom , Fire Nation, and Water Tribes, we can gain valuable in sights into the relationship between a society's values and the physical world they create. Furthermore, by examining real-world influences on the sefictional structures, we can bridge the gap between fantasy and reality, prompting reflection on how our own built environment reflects and shapes our values. Stay tuned for the next chapter, where we'll explore the Earth Kingdom and how its architecture reflects their emphasis on stability, resilience, and connection to the ground.

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Cyrus Majebi

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Interesting writeup!

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The Architecture of Grounded Freedom

The Architecture of Grounded Freedom

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Samuel Ibok

Marketing Supervisor @ Crusader Sterling Pensions Limited

Lagos, Nigeria

They say the apple does not fall far from the tree, but I was the exception, or I was supposed to be. I grew up hating my parents, who died when I was only 4. They were known by many to be ruthless and fierce. They tried to shield me from that, but I guess I wasn't too young to see the patterns. When they passed, my grandparents took me in and kept me far from my parents' legacy. I hawked and hustled hard, like every kid who grew up on the rough streets of Lagos. I graduated with good grades, despite my side hustles. I became famous in my area because I was considered a smart kid. I remember how my neighbours used to call me genius, and even the strong men in my area tagged me Sabi Pikin, and I wasn't to be harmed by any rival group. I landed a job at a marketing firm, and I was certain I would make magic. A few months into the job, I received four offers from three top-tier universities in the UK to study my dream course. I was overwhelmed, and for the first time in my life, I felt like things started to fall into place.  I had planned to resign at the end of a particular project at work so I could focus on doubling my hustle and raising funds to pay my deposit and secure my admission. I resumed work the week before my notice period ended and heard that some company items were missing. Now I wasn't very worried because I thought I wouldn't be questioned because I wasn't in charge of the items, but I was in that department. The following day, some policemen showed up at work and started questioning people. Normally me and Olopa no get business but I had to just respond to questions to fulfil all righteousness. Before I knew it, I was told that I would be taken to the station for further questioning. I dragged out the issue, stating boldly that I am innocent. I told my boss that I could not go to the station because of my Japa plans, but he bluntly told me that I was a key suspect. He said that it's possible that I sold the items to fund my visa application; besides, the son of a thief is also a thief.  He basically made me the chief suspect over an issue I had no idea about.  The police made things worse by using my parents' legacy to taunt me. My old grandparents pleaded on my behalf, but to no avail. The streets heard of my plight and raised money to bail me out, but I was thrown into prison without being found guilty of any crime. I wept for days, and my entire life flashed before me. The deadline for my deposit payment had passed, and I had given up on my plans. Three days before my release, I met an old colleague of my dad who told me about my dad and the reason he became the man he was before he died. My dad was betrayed by the government and used as a scapegoat. He resorted to violence as a means of survival. I vowed that day to cause pain to all those who stole my future from me. I was baptised fully with the street OT, and I guess my destiny changed. I became omó èsan- the son of vengeance. When I went home, everyone who saw me knew I had changed. The strong men in my hood stepped back and said I had finally embraced my destiny. My grandparents wept for me because I became the very thing they spent their remaining year protecting me from.  I went to my former boss's favourite chilling spot and gave him a surprise smile! He couldn't even recognise me. I was buff, and my hoody kept me a mystery. I called him "Final Boss," a name no one else but me called him at work. He was shocked to see me in the flesh. The scars on my face must have scared him, but that was only the beginning. He stood there looking at me in fear, and I reminded him of the time he stole from me. He called me Ayo and tried to apologize, but it was too late. I had already embraced my destiny. He didn't bother to release me even when they had found the actual thief. I told him today wasn't his day, but I would take from him more than he took from me. I looked him in the eye and told him I am Ésan, the son of vengeance. I walked away knowing that he would lose his sleep and fellowship with his worries. That made me happy because he would have a taste of what prison felt like. I noticed he had upgraded his security detail, and word got out that he was going to leave the country with his family for security reasons. He handed over his company to his younger brother to run. He who knows the street will not run aimlessly. I waited patiently for him to think he would finally be free. His flight was at 8 p.m., and I knew fear would make him lodge close to the airport. I followed him to the hotel and planted one of my ladies there. They say something must kill a man, right? Well, his Akilis Hill was a fair, curvy woman. He tried his luck with the lady, and she played along. He sent his guard to pay for another room, and that was our opportunity. We snatched him, drugged him, and placed him in a wheel chair. We rolled him out carefully and took him to where his story would end. He woke up tied up and in shock. He screamed for help, and he kept weeping. I told him that the sins of the father would be met by the son and that my vengeance would fall on his entire family. He kept begging for mercy—the very thing he didn't give me. I leaked the news of his kidnapping to Tunde Ednut, and it was trending on Twitter. My guys started a live video on Twitter, and I made him confess to the entire world. I asked the viewers to judge him based on a poll, and the majority asked for his death. But I knew that constant fear was worse than death.  Over 4 million people had joined the live video, and the hashtag "ésan" was trending. I did the unexpected. I dropped his location on the live feed and walked away with my crew. The authorities arrived on the scene after we had left. The location was flooded with an angry mob that connected my boss to their problems. My story became a source of strength for other young people, and in a matter of weeks, the entire nation was in chaos. People took to the streets to demand their rights and the removal of corrupt officials. Strong men assembled under one umbrella with the goal of fighting the oppressors. The international community predicted an impending collapse in my nation because of the state of affairs. Many built statues for me and wrote songs about me. Those in the other camp felt my methods were too extreme and unlawful.  The government is still looking for me, and they think I am on the run. They have no idea that I am no longer a person but an idea, a force, and a philosophy.  I am my father's son, Ésan—the son of vengeance. To be continued......

In Literature, Writing and Blogging • 5 min read • Apr 23, 2023 22:20p.m.

OMÓ ÉSAN

OMÓ ÉSAN

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Paris • 10 months, 2 weeks ago

Wow, I'm amazed and this piece got me googling to do some fact checking, and ended up in the DM. This is great storytelling!

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Content Writer and contributor @ TwoCents

Yenagoa, Nigeria

The race for who will occupy Aso Rock in 2023 is gradually gaining momentum. In the past month the 2 major parties had their primaries and elected their flag bearers. There was also a pleasant surprise which no one anticipated. Peter Obi moved to Labour Party from PDP just a few days to the PDP primaries. A move akin to that of a football player on the last day of the January transfer window. With this, Peter Obi took the formerly unknown Labour Party from obscurity to the 3rd force in the country in less than 24hrs. Scintillating. Isn't it?Although, he said he left the PDP, quote and unquote, due to some practices that do not sit well with his persona. I believe part of it was the delegate buying and the fact that he knew he stood no chance if he wasn't willing to conform. Smart man, I must say. He didnt take the famous saying by Socrates "Man, know thyself!" for granted. He realised the odds were stacked against him quickly enough to port like "Saka" from Etisalat to MTN.In a turn of events, this unexpected move seems to be the best thing to have happened to Nigerians in the first half of 2022.

In Politics • 1 min read • Jun 10, 2022 22:42p.m.

A MAN OF THE PEOPLE 💪🏽

A MAN OF THE PEOPLE 💪🏽

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Queensley Okon

Ota • 2 years, 5 months ago

Yesso, I am OBIdient

Samuel Ibok

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Lagos, Nigeria

I believe everyone loves children. If you don't, kindly see a therapist! This may sound crazy, but I think children are like coins, and their experiences influence their impact in society. I think they could be our future or our end. People in Africa would understand better. Deprivation leads to frustration, which in turn determines the actions we take. Children are generally feeble, and in most cases, they cannot think for themselves. They depend on their parents or the older folk for provision and protection. Now, the absence of a parent figure leaves children exposed to unscrupulous people. In other words, the children are left to choose either order or chaos. I can say for free that every day I see at least 10 children begging on the streets. Sadly, these children are found begging around the very institutions that are meant to cater for them. Today they are begging for alms; tomorrow they could take up arms. They could perceive other citizens as part of the reason for their plight, and they may find refuge in the closets of cultists, bandits, and terrorists. Yes, hunger gives direction! It exposes them to the danger of being in the company of thrives, but then where would they rather be? I think it's high time everyone became more responsible. I'm not saying we would do it all in a year, but can we at least start? Parents should do better, and the government should rehabilitate and reintegrate street children back into society. Collaborations between the government, civil society, and NGOs are pivotal. Let us remember that together we can do so much. Every child will eventually grow up. The question is: what kind of adult would they become? The answer depends on our actions and inactions. Learn Unlearn Relearn

In People and Society • 2 min read • Dec 02, 2022 22:24p.m.

From Alms to Arms

From Alms to Arms

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Lagos, Nigeria

'Poverty ambassador'... 'the man who has a covenant with poverty'... 'I've never seen someone who is so proud of being broke'... 'this guy never minds his business'... Say what you want about him, but in an era where multiple colorful characters rise to social media fame, Daniel Regha may yet take the title as the most enigmatic. He even dresses like he is prepared to receive the award. About a couple of years ago, a young man slowly gathered attention on social media for his unsolicited criticisms and advices on basically every matter - his name is Daniel Regha. What initially annoyed people, began amusing some (the rest have and still call for his head). Personally, I thought it was one of those 15 seconds fame thing. But nope! Daniel's 15 seconds seem to be going on forever, seeing as he has found ways to make blog pages every now and then. One of the zings Nigerians used to try to shut him up, is broke shaming. Seriously, why do we always do that? However, Daniel refused to be gagged because of his financial status (which nobody was certain about anyway). He kept up with his antics much to the chagrin of his detractors. Enter Elon Musk's money. Twitter (can't get used to calling it X even till now) rolled out the monetization feature for accounts - meaning your tweets could fetch you money depending on the engagement levels. This must have been Daniel's prayers answered because he stands out as one of the 'influencers' to have hugely benefited from this. In a move I slap the term 'genius' on, Daniel embraced his 'poverty'. Netizens loved broke shaming him, so he might as well get paid for it. Occasionally, he uploads a photo of his 'unappealing' meals and sits back while a group of people I term unwise bombard his comments with mockery and a sad display of deluded elitism (a few things get Nigerians excited more than the feeling that they are living a better life than the next man). The following week, he uploads another and gets the same result.Honestly, this makes me question human intelligence and how easily we fall for baits like fish. People call him all sorts, but I call him clever. I don't know if he intentionally does it or he is just oblivious - if he is oblivious, it makes it even more pathetic for those who indulge him. Nigerians are elitists and pride themselves in classism - which is strange for a third world nation. We always lose our marbles for things that give us that perception of class, and condemn anything else that reminds us of the reality of the nation. Honestly, whatever anyone eats or wears should not be the concern of strangers. Yet, to those online, it is an invitation to access said person's financial status. Which is why I applaud Mr. Regha. In his own quirky way, he has found a means to exploit the deluded classism of Nigerians to his profit. You do not have to like him, but you cannot deny his unorthodox brilliance.

In Literature, Writing and Blogging • 3 min read • Jun 25, 2024 12:25p.m.

THE CURIOUS CASE OF MR. REGHA

THE CURIOUS CASE OF MR. REGHA

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Most times I do ask myself how Nigerians, including myself would have coped without okrika? How would have the common man in Nigeria managed to cover his nakedness if peradventure there were no Okrika clothes, belts, shoes, caps, hats amongst other wears. Of course, the result would have been uninteresting and on the other hand ridiculous as we probably would have had situations where people normalise walking through the streets, roads and markets naked and bare footed. Okrika is a term that refers to 'used' or 'second-hand' clothes in Nigeria. As a term, 'okrika' is derived from a small port town in Rivers State known as Okrika where all second-hand clothes were shipped to and sold to the locals. Interestingly, the origin of okrika clothes in Nigeria can be traced to the 1950s, when Okrika was the only port through which clothes (used) were shipped down to Nigeria from Europe. During this time, okrika clothes were said to be in high demand based on the fact that locally manufactured clothes in Nigeria were not only ery expensive for people to purchase but also were allegedly lacked durability. One thing about Okrika wears is that they are not selective and thus, are attractive to both the rich and poor. However, despite the fact that often times, it is believed that okrika clothes are meant for the poor, needy and those without sophistication and class, the "sought -after" commodity also receives a greater number of patronage from the rich. In Nigeria, okrika business is done by men and women, young and old. It usually comes in different grades namely: grade one (comprising very clean and durable used clothes) and last grade (comprising leftover clothes that do not look appealing to buyers). It is a very competitive and profitable business that helps people to gain easy access to clothings. Today, okrika clothes and wearables can be found in all parts of the country both rural and and urban and in these diverse areas, it is known by different names and for different things. For instance, while it is known as "bend down select" in some parts of the country, it is equally known as "bo si corner" "Belgium" "Tokumba"amongst others. These names are ascribed to okrika clothes in Nigeria based on the fact that first, :most sellers display their clothes on the ground and in a bid to take a close look at them, buyers bend down to select their choice of clothes amongst others and second, a greater number of customers are very ashamed to put on the clothes on the open to avoid been seen by the public. Instead, they prefer going through the corners so that no one would seen them.  Overall, it is important to say that inasmuch as Nigerians enjoy the usage of these clothings, it is rather unfortunate that they patronize it more than the local fabrics and clothings made in Nigeria.  Could this still be part of the consequences of  colonialism on  African minds or is just an aberration of a distracted or dislodged human thoughts buried in confusion and hopelessness?  It better be one or both of these options otherwise I do not see any justifiable reason why Nigerians should be happy and fulfilled wearing and firmly patronisimg  'used' and most times 'worn out' clothes imported from  far away United Kingdom, United States amongst other European countries! But wait a minute, who did this to us?

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In History and Culture • 3 min read • Dec 30, 2022 00:14a.m.

OKRIKA HAS BEEN SAVING LIVES SINCE THE 1950s

OKRIKA HAS BEEN SAVING LIVES SINCE THE 1950s

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Yaoundé • 1 year, 10 months ago

Woah! I had no idea of the origin of the name till now. We Call it Okrika in Cameroon too.

Samuel Ibok

Marketing Supervisor @ Crusader Sterling Pensions Limited

Lagos, Nigeria

Whenever I think of the plight in Africa, a certain song from my childhood days comes to mind. Some have food but cannot eat; some can eat but have no food; we have food and we can eat; glory be to thee oh Lord... My emphasis is on the first two lines. It's ironic how a continent so blessed is largely considered to be the face of poverty globally. It makes me ponder what exactly the issue is. To start with, we can always trace our predicament to the slave trade and link it to neocolonialism. But is that all there is? Should we point the finger exclusively at our former slave masters or should we look deeply into our choices as a people? I think we've modified the slave game and made it worse because we've internalized the lies that we can't get better. Yes, we are still heavily bound to the West, and it still influences our economic, social, and political decisions. A key means through which they do this is via multinational corporations. Now, these firms can either be seen as agents of development or underdevelopment. You choose! Isn't it suspicious how the oil-rich Niger Delta Region of Nigeria, where major oil companies reside, is flooded with violence and arms proliferation? Similarly, these companies keep violating international law, and they still get away with it. How about the issue of environmental degradation due to careless practices? Well, we tend to zip our lips because of the few scholarships they give. We are funny sha! Now over to "we Africans." We tend to kill ourselves over the national cake, and we have used religion, which was imported, as motivation and justification for violence. Development cannot take place in the absence of security. Our elected leaders have made things worse by amassing wealth while the electorate remains poor. Sadly, even those with good intentions find themselves in a system designed to make them fail. We are hungry in the midst of plenty. The political class is better informed, but their decisions often lack clarity. The truth is that each sector is interconnected. We have the impression that anything made by us is substandard and everything made abroad is original. I know it's partly because of unscrupulous individuals who thrive off the counterfeit market. How about we invest more in ourselves and our local industries? Brain drain would continue untill we take a Mental SWERVE! How about we limit our relationship with the outside world? Now, I said limit, not end (we can end if necessary). We need to stand up for ourselves more. No African nation is one of the permanent members of the UN Security Council. I want to say them no rate us but whats there to rate! We should update our educational system. In fact, there should be an overhaul. We don't need more class rooms. We need better courses! Overdependence on natural resources should end; let's use our brains. The government should relax and remember that its goal is to create an enabling environment. Oh, and yeah, the government cannot do it all. If all the conversations we have as Africans revolve around our mineral resources, then our future would remain bleak. What if we wake up tomorrow and all the resources have vanished? What would be our fate? What two cents can you suggest to change the African situation? Learn Unlearn Relearn #swerve #LEarn

In Africa • 3 min read • Jan 16, 2023 09:17a.m.

The Resource Curse

The Resource Curse

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Asiogu Ugochukwu

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Articulating my thoughts on matters we have settled as human beings is usually within reach. Maybe we never know things for certain, but at least we settle them. The difficulty is with the things that refuse to coalesce in our collective consciousness. I spend a fair bit of my time thinking about Romantic love among these unresolved things; I don’t know many things we so collectively refuse to stop failing at like we do with Romance. We meet the one or ones, we sing the song or songs and fall in love all at once. Slowly though, love oft gets taken from us; love dies or leaves before the times we pick or devise. This time, in particular, I cast thoughts to loving someone for only the moment - for the time you’re allowed or maybe because it is all you can do. What might it mean to different people when they say or think to themselves; I love you only for the moment. I had thought the brevity would bother me, but I am more puzzled by the motives. Sometimes people simply loved in waiting; love unrequited wilted and was no more. Others love shortly because they tried; For a season, the love bloomed and then suddenly, without intention, the want was gone. There are those who intentionally look to burn brightly and fast - firework lovers, I call them. In advance, I apologise because I will only leave questions - there will be nothing settled. When I speak on love here, I’m referring to what the romantic genre of media calls “true love”. As to what that is, we have only poetry, cynicism and everything in between. “ If nothing saves us from death, at least love should save us from life”, Pablo Neruda said. Maybe not a definition, but I read it and feel what love might feel like - salvation from my waking mind. The cynic might say it’s all just the chemical workings of the mind, the way nature pairs us up. Some are poetic about it, too;” If no one told me about it, I would never have fallen in love”, I once read. However, Romantic or classic, the commentary on the brevity of true love is Prevalent. Pablo Neruda says himself: Love is so short, and forgetting is so long. A saddening snapshot. More gruesome are the thoughts of Fictional genius Rick Sanchez: "Listen, Morty, I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Rise above. Focus on science." Maybe. Maybe they’re both right about the nature of this “true love” my mind settles on a few motives or circumstances for short-lived endearment. Firstly, there are some people that set out to love forever, staying committed to each step they can find. The world sees them and laughs; it conspires against them, and It kills their love even quite literally. These people fall to chance. If life were kind, they would have loved in perpetuity. Others are distrustful - maybe you are like this - love comes, but how can this be? The magic here at my doorstep; If it is, then how much more can there be in the wait for me? This man or woman or boy or girl is greedy or scared; they might even be naive. They love partially but wait for the moment to turn their hearts. They kill the bond before it can be taken from them on unwanted terms. Lastly, if love is not withdrawn by us or taken by life’s force, then maybe it is its nature - here today, gone before the next day. Maybe Love is brief like we are, so we can see how precious it is. A poet may say that. Maybe Netflix’s fictional Nihilist, Rick Sanchez, has it all figured out, and I thought out loud an unanswerable question about chemicals older than even the first men. Maybe no matter what we do, in the truest sense, we might meet the one or ones, dance to all the right songs and even love them but only, at that time, for now.

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Anita Koske

Paris • 10 months, 2 weeks ago

Yes, unlearn learn and re-learn. I was writing a paper, a statement of purpose really, on what I think is the most pressing challenge in ...

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In Literature, Writing and Blogging • 3 min read • Jan 22, 2023 15:14p.m.

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Tari Ogbowei

Content Writer and contributor @ TwoCents

Yenagoa, Nigeria

In the past few days, both the Labour Party presidential candidate, Mr. Peter Obi and the APC candidate, Bola Ahmed Tinubu (BAT) chose their running mates. Mr. Obi a Christian from the South chose Dr. Yusuf Datti Baba-Ahmed, a Muslim from the northern state of Kaduna while BAT chose a Mr. Kashim Shettima, a Muslim, a former governor of Borno state. While the power to choose a running mate resides with the presidential candidate and the party, the populace cannot be left out. Though, this election for obvious reasons, seems to be between BAT who is running on the platform of the "misruling" party, APC and Mr. Peter Obi who has won the hearts of many Nigerians and seems to be the people's choice, their choices of VP candidate will either add further credence to their candidacy or will take away the little they have, or at least in some quarters. Taking away sentiments, tribal, religious or party, Mr. Peter Obi's choice seems to be the better and more generally acceptable. Nigeria being a multi-ethnic nation with citizens majorly being either Christians or Muslims, it is pertinent to balance both religion and ethnicity in something as important as a presidential bid. Peter Obi has done just that and in doing that, he proves that these two (2) factors shouldn't be the only criteria. Peter Obi's choice buttresses the point that no nation, religion or tribe has the monopoly of intelligent, successful and competent people. We have intelligent and competent people everywhere and it's only normal to engage them to represent us instead of making such important choices on the basis of ethnicity and religion. Dr. Baba-Ahmed who's an economist and founder of Africa's biggest private hospital, Baze hospital has definitely succeeded in the private sector just like Mr. Obi. He also compliments Mr. Obi's quality as a competent leader. Dr. Baba-Ahmed like Mr. Peter Obi has won the hearts of Nigerians with his sterling record. He has gone ahead in the footsteps of Mr. Obi to grant interviews and engage with the media in the few days of his nomination, creating the much needed visibility he, Mr. Obi and the Labour party should have. It has also endeared him to a lot of Nigerians as it makes him and Mr. Obi have this air of accessibility, as is uncommon with other candidates. BAT on the other hand obviously didn't choose a Christian northerner as running mate because he wouldn't have the popularity to get him votes in the North as the North is predominantly Muslim. He rather picked a Muslim just like himself. This makes his candidacy appeal to mainly those of his tribe and religious demography. A larger spread of Nigerians do not buy into his candidacy now that the identity of his final choice for a running has been confirmed. Various bodies have already come out to warn and state their disagreements with his choice of a muslim-muslim ticket. Despite what anyone says, we can't take away these sentiments of tribe and religion in our politics as a nation. It is common sense to keep things balanced as Nigeria is a nation with heightened ethno-religious sentiments which can denigrate at anytime with the slightest provocation. Whatever the case, the election of 2023 is going to be a tightly contested one but how will the choices of VP candidates sway the voters?

In Politics • 3 min read • Jul 11, 2022 21:44p.m.

THE CHOICE OF THE VP CANDIDATE: ITS EFFECT ON VOTING DEMOGRAPHICS

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From elegance to seduction, Lingerie is a big part of being a woman. I have been surprised to find too many women not knowing the difference between different types of bras and hence choosing to wear wrong types of bra. This is an overlooked element of style. I read a beautiful book a few years ago by Kathrin Kemp-Griffin. It explained the ins and outs of how lingerie is constructed, different types of lace , and what to look for when shopping , with lovely illustrations. No matter how wonderful you are dressed, all is in vain if you are not wearing right bra. Bras can make a difference in your looks. Women in France embraced the corset in the early 1500s to archive the "perfect" female figure. Corsets started to evolve to a girdle making a woman's figure more of an "s " shape by 1800. 1869, Hermine Cadolle cut a corset into two separate garments - the top supported the breasts by means of straps . Then Mary Phelps also known as Caresse Crosby kickstarted the modern bra revolution in 1913. She crafted this revolutionary undergarment using two silk handkerchiefs. Bras have transformed over the centuries and the evolution of bras has sure helped women world-wide. Lets dive into the different types of Bras 1. T-shirt bra : A bra with thin smoothly contoured cups to give the best smooth shape under T-shirts. Now, you know what to do if you're wearing T-shirts ladies. 2. Full Cup : A bra with cups that completely cover the breasts. They are usually padded/molded 3. Demi bra & Balconette : Demi-wide set straps, half-shaped cups ; horizontal bust line while Balconnete is a low cut demi-bra . Better for accentuating. 4. Bralete: No-underwire bra with no padding or molded cups. A comfier alternative to padded bras for some. 5. Push-up bra : This contains additional padding at the bottom to create a fuller looking bust 6. Plunge bra: It has low cut cups joined by a thin center piece. Good for outfits with a low/dipping neckline. 7. Minimiser bra : A full coverage bra which reduces the bust size by a few inches 8. Sports bra: This supports and prevents discomfort during physical activity 9. Strapless bra : This is without shoulder straps to wear with off-shoulder tops 10. Bandeu bra: it is designed in a strip made out of stretchy fabric. Now that you know the different types of bra, you should do better with your style. Technological advancement has also played a major role in the evolution of bras. Japanese lingerie company called Ravijour has developed a bra that senses heart rate which is analyzed by your smartphone . When your heart rate changes to indicate you are in love, the bra pops open! lol I got you! What is that story about bras is engraved in your mind that you can never forget.? please share in the comment section.

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In Beauty, Fashion and Lifestyle • 2 min read • Feb 15, 2024 23:29p.m.

The World Of Undergarments

The World Of Undergarments

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Chefor Eugene

Bamenda • 9 months, 1 week ago

Most ladies are fast incorporating the habit of going without bra. What actually is the cause and what's the remedy?

Samuel Ibok

Marketing Supervisor @ Crusader Sterling Pensions Limited

Lagos, Nigeria

It always starts with a thought and then a taste. As much as we can all agree that appetite is inherent in humans, I strongly believe that it is learned. Also, when you constantly feed that thought with meat, it becomes a part of your being or identity. The appetite for certain things gets heightened over time, and the inability to satisfy those desires could lead to anxiety. I guess that's why addicts always find a way back to their poison. It reminds me of the prodigal son fleeing to the streets because of Sapa! A few days back, I saw a young boy in his early twenties waiting patiently for a BRT bus so he could end his precious life. Thank God, and thank those who approached him and dragged him off the road. It was clear that he was under influence. To put it another way, otilo! My Yoruba is rusty, but I could pick off comments about him being a chronic smoker and alcoholic who spent most time hanging out with his peers, who are obviously birds of a feather. It took a lot of convincing to get him stable, and he was still trying to force his way back to the express. Even in his high state, he could recall his parents' phone number, which was quite cute! After his highness took a bow, he regained his sanity, and reality hit him again. He started showing signs of remorse and was in tears. I'm no sadist, but I've seen things like this on several occasions, so I wasn't moved by his tears. Yeah, the tears are not a guarantee of change. His father arrived on the scene and didn't seem very surprised at his folly. I may be wrong, but I could tell his dad drinks and smokes. In my mind, I said, "Like father, like son!" Let's be real, yeah. Who do we blame—the boy or his dad? Most of the time, we jump to conclusions and assume that peer pressure is the primary cause of societal problems, but this is almost always incorrect. Cheers to parents for all they do, but they have to do better. What's the point of your grind as a parent if your children, humanity's hope, end up wayward or become a threat to society? The money you provide after toiling is no guarantee that your kids have character. Sometimes you have to stop telling parables and start living them. Quit the blame game and do better. In the end, we are all models for others to follow. And I believe you, young men, can tell right from wrong. Make yourself and your parents proud. Let the fear of missing out not lead you out of the promised land! I believe "restraint is what keeps us free." Your taste buds fit carry you go where you no know! Just because it's cool doesn't mean it can't get you burned! This doesn't stop you from enjoying your life as a young person. Let us put an end to the myth that a chilled life must contain traces of vice. If you think these thoughts are unrealistic, I dare you to be better. The truth is, that young man was lucky to have people around to stop him from ending his life, so he technically has a second chance. Not everyone is that lucky. If you're hooked on something that can get you in trouble, give yourself a second chance today. Children are our responsibility and our hope. Never forget that. Learn Unlearn Relearn

In People and Society • 3 min read • Dec 29, 2022 09:31a.m.

Otilo (Izz gone)

Otilo (Izz gone)

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Jefferson Nnadiekwe

Freelance scriptwriter and creative photographer

Lagos, Nigeria

The biggest obstacle a person might encounter when trying to achieve their goals or on their path to success, is their dreams. Strange right? Dreams are great. Each time I hear the word dreams, that song from ' The Greatest Showman' comes to mind - you know the one, sorry if you don't (take it as an assignment). So what are dreams? Not in the literal sense, but in relation to ambition. I will define dreams as that lofty aspiration a person has to create an impact in a specific career, or just for personal success. It doesn't matter in what aspect of life, dreamers exist everywhere. They are artists, scientists, lawyers, medical practitioners, farmers etc. Anyone can have a dream to excel anywhere. It all sounds so good, so what the hell was my opening statement about? Dreams are supposed to spur us into steps of actualization, right? Not all the time. Dreams may turn out to be what holds us back, and this is because a lot of people get stuck in the dream phase and take no concrete step. The world is full of dreamers, yet it is strange that only a handful of those dreamers turn their dreams to reality. I bet if you hit up a random person from your contact list and ask them their aspirations, they will have a lot to say. But then, if you push further you will probably find that there are no steps being taken. It's quite easy to dream. It costs nothing. Find a quiet place and cast your mind, that's all that it takes. The world of dreams is bursting with an infinite number of ideas, from an infinite number of people. The sad part is many of those ideas live and die in that world. This is not a post to discourage dreamers, far from it. I'm writing this to tell you that there is a whole lot of work to be done after the dream phase. Hard work is scary. It's daunting... The fact that even after working hard, failure is still a possibility is discouraging. These are the factors that a lot of people consider and opt to rather keep dreaming. Hard work isn't the only opposition to actualization of dreams. We also have greed and impatience. Because dreams are so lofty and grand, it's easy to get carried away. If I dream of becoming the best filmmaker in the world, my mind goes straight to the perks and awards. The more I envision the perks, the more greedy and impatient I become - I want them all as far as my dreams travel. I may forget that becoming the best filmmaker in the world entails that I have to make a film first and fail sometimes. If I do not have the patience to fail, how am I going to grow? It is not uncommon for dreamers to let their dreams run wild and detached from reality. Dreams require a level of pragmatism and discipline inorder to tame them. I will know all these because I used to be a wild dreamer. Thank God I have become wise enough to realize that I need to set myself on a path first - a frustrating and pain laden path filled with Nos and rejection. To make progress in our aspirations and goals, we need to get out of our own way. And to do that sometimes requires us to stop dreaming for a moment.

In Literature, Writing and Blogging • 3 min read • May 22, 2024 10:58a.m.

DREAM BLOCK

DREAM BLOCK

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Jefferson Nnadiekwe

Freelance scriptwriter and creative photographer

Lagos, Nigeria

I'm of the weird believe that we were born with the knowledge of what we want to be or in another term; 'the idea of our purpose'. However, as we grow and spend more time on earth, the reality of the world we live in makes us lose sight of whatever that might be. It might be a crazy theory but think about it. Cast your mind back to when you were a kid without the pressures that life is constantly throwing at us at the moment. With no bills and responsibilities, we allowed ourselves to be drawn to what really resonates with us. Using myself as a case study, my interest in filmmaking has always been a part of me even if it seemed like I only discovered it in my final year in the university. As a kid, I had quite the imagination that went several steps further than the usual. I considered myself an oddball for acting out a feature length movie (created by me) using nothing but my mom's hair brush. Fast forward years later, and I was lost on a career path to pursue. Advices from parents born out of the need to see a son succeed veered me off a path I was already aware of as a kid. I consider myself fortunate enough to be able to rediscover that passion. Not everyone is that lucky. It's not news that our world can be unfair. It constantly rips us away from our dreams. Adulthood comes with so many sacrifices and a deadline to make these sacrifices. The fact that we are constantly reminded of how easy it is to fail, and the consequences that follow such failures, influences the major decisions we make as adults. There are so many people stuck in jobs they'd rather not do - it is only the desire for financial comfortability that spurs them. It's not an entirely sad thing, because a lot of people veer off and still attain success. I guess my point is that, maybe life would have been much easier if that knowledge remained with us as we grew. Maybe we would be happier if we didn't chose paths influenced by the rat race and pursuit for financial freedom. Or maybe it's best the way it is. In all, my go to advise to anyone who is conflicted and searching for his/her purpose, is to go back to the days of your childhood. Remember those things that ignited a spark in you - a lot of which might be quirky or even eccentric. Once you are able to find it, you can then begin the process of repositioning yourself on the right path.

In Literature, Writing and Blogging • 2 min read • Mar 01, 2024 15:26p.m.

KIDS KNOW BETTER

KIDS KNOW BETTER

Jefferson Nnadiekwe

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