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Bint As-Samt🧚🏻 Student @ Adekunle Ajasin university
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In Relationships • 2 min read • May 22, 2025 11:19a.m.
Love, Money, and Relationships. 🧘🏾‍♀️
<p>There’s a system that annoys me a lot—girls saying "If you don’t have money, clear out," even when they’re already in a relationship. Everyone is so materialistic now. No one is searching for deep, real love anymore.</p><p>Love is beautiful—but only when you’re with someone reasonable and sensible. Love isn’t just about romance.</p><p>It’s about staying—even when it hurts.</p><p>It’s about growing together as a couple, chasing our goals side by side.</p><p>It’s in the little gestures that show you care.</p><p>It’s how you listen, how you correct me kindly when I’m wrong, and how you accept correction too.</p><p>It’s the way you push me towards my goals, contribute to my plans, and help me grow spiritually.</p><p>It’s how we resolve our fights with maturity and admit when we’re wrong.</p><p>Love is a whole lot more than people make it seem.</p><p>Seriously, where’s the love that makes you grow? The kind that feels deep, not transactional? The love that’s real?</p><p>I hear a lot of girls saying, "As long as he has money, I’m okay."</p><p>Girl, be for real. If he has money but lacks honesty, commitment, and character—will you still stay?</p><p>What about a man who’s disciplined? A man who’s consistent and God-fearing? A real man?</p><p>Yes, these men exist. But as a lady, you must grow too. It’s not all about what a man can offer financially.</p><p>Money is essential, yes—but your mindset is even more important.</p><p>Your beauty is not the only thing you bring to the table. Bring your patience, your intelligence, your values, your contributions, and your willingness to stand by him in tough times.</p><p>Stop chasing only the transactional. Start being real with life—and with love.</p><p><br></p>
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I hope you learnt one or two from this article. Ladies please focus on growing yourself and stop hyping transactional love.🧚🏻✨
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