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Oluwole Gift Student @ Adekunle Ajasin university of ondo state
In Mental Health • 1 min read •
💫Not Chosen, But Still Worthy

There was a time I thought being overlooked meant I wasn’t enough.

Not chosen meant not wanted.

Not wanted meant not Worthy

Not worthy meant unqualified.

But I was wrong.

Because worth isn't determined by who sees you or stays with you 

Your worthy is reflected by those who recognize it and remain— it’s something you carry quietly, even when no one claps, even when the room is empty as well.


I learned to stop downsizing  myself just to be picked.

I learned that my softness wasn’t a flaw, and silence wasn’t absence.

Sometimes, it's just space being made for the right kind of love — the one that doesn't require me to beg for it.


Now I move in different manner .

Not because I stopped wanting to be chosen — but because I started choosing me first.


And that changed everything.



Have you ever had to remind yourself that you're still worthy, even when no one chose you? 🤍


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You are allowed to start over, soften again, and choose yourself — even if no one else does. Keep going. Your quiet becoming is still beautiful. ✨
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