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Ibrahim Haruna Madison
Cashier, customer's representative and accountant @ EB POLY LEATHER COMPANY GOMBE STATE
Cashier, customer's representative and accountant @ EB POLY LEATHER COMPANY GOMBE STATE
Relationship
<p>Stop Defending and Start Listening to Your Partner </p><p><br/></p><p>In marriage, not every complaint is an attack. Sometimes it’s a cry for help. Stop defending yourself right away. Listen first. Understanding grows when you hear before you speak.</p><p><br/></p><p>Defending shuts the door. Your partner feels unheard. They stop talking. Silence replaces honesty. And when silence takes over, connection fades. Listening keeps that door wide open.</p><p><br/></p><p>You don’t have to agree with everything. But you can still listen with respect. Let them finish. Breathe. Then speak. This builds trust and makes hard talks easier.</p><p><br/></p><p>Listening is love in action. It says, “You matter more than my ego.” It says, “I want to understand.” Defensiveness only proves you’re focused on winning, not healing.</p><p><br/></p><p>Next time, pause. Hold back your defense. Lean in. Hear the pain behind the words. You’ll be amazed how many fights end - not with defense, but with understanding.</p>
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