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Bint As-Samt🧚🏻 Student @ Adekunle Ajasin university
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In Women • 2 min read • May 26, 2025 18:45p.m.
Why Becoming That Girl Isn’t Just About Aesthetics🙂
<p>I’m sure you’ve seen all those that girl aesthetics on Instagram</p><p>Productivity overload, soft life glam, gym pics, perfect bodies,</p><p>money, relationships that look like they came straight out of Pinterest.</p><p>Leemaooo, yeah.</p><p>This?</p><p>This is what’s ruining us girls.</p><p>We’re being told how to live.</p><p>What to wear.</p><p>How to act.</p><p>Be a baddie. Be rude. Be rich. Be perfect.</p><p>My girl, come closer.</p><p>If you keep following what society teaches you now,</p><p>you’ll never be satisfied.</p><p>No matter how successful you become,</p><p>you’ll always feel like you’re chasing something.</p><p>Because self-growth?</p><p>It’s not about aesthetics. Hell nah.</p><p>It’s about being yourself.</p><p>Embracing your flaws.</p><p>Doing what makes you happy.</p><p>Going to the gym not for a flat tummy</p><p>but for your health.</p><p>Building a business not just for cash—</p><p>but to grow, to connect, to inspire other girlies.</p><p>You don’t have to be rude.</p><p>You don’t have to be perfect.</p><p>You’re imperfect—and that’s okay.</p><p>You’ll learn lessons.</p><p>You’ll grow.</p><p>You’ll break down sometimes.</p><p>But that’s life.</p><p>It’s not just about matching your outfit to your iced coffee.</p><p>It’s about the little, meaningful moments.</p><p>It’s about connecting with your Creator.</p><p>Finding peace in loneliness.</p><p>Discovering who you are when you sit in silence.</p><p>Now don’t get me wrong</p><p>Goals? Ambitions? Dreams?</p><p>We love that.</p><p>But when the aesthetic lifestyle starts to control your mind…</p><p>it gets unhealthy real quick.</p><p>So breathe.</p><p>Be your own version of that girl.</p><p>Not society’s version.</p><p>Yours.</p><p><br></p>
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