<p>A problem with me is that I'd magnify anything that has been said to me even if it was meant as a compliment. For example, I was told today that I was growing intellectually and my mind immediately thought, "hmm does this person mean that I wasn't smart before or just that I'm getting better?" What does growing actually mean to her? Is that what I should be thinking of or how should I take it? Only for the person it make it worse and give an example of how you eat and get fat at home and people in the house won't notice till you go outside. That got me thinking, this person is always at home with me, Does she really not see my intellectual abilities? Because she got the conclusion that I was growing when I told her someone complimented me. These are the struggles. 😂</p>
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