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Patricia Ochejeno Student @ University of Cross River State • Port Harcourt • 3 days, 12 hours ago

This is so meWhen someone offends me, I keep quiet because I just done want to drag the matter.They won't even realize that what they did was offensive . And then I found out that I keep thinking about it over and over and it annoys me further.So I stopped doing that. If I'm hurt, I tell you straight up so I don't carry it in my heart too long .

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Thoughtbyk Student @ Adekunle Ajasin university Ondo state • Osogbo, Nigeria • 2 days, 10 hours ago

This is exactly the cycle I was talking about 😭. Sometimes we keep quiet because we don't want to drag the matter, only to end up dragging it inside our own head for days 😂. I think saying it calmly when something hurts you can actually help you let it go faster, instead of carrying it around and getting angry all over again. ❤️