AMEBO GIST FROM MY HUMBLE CHAMBER 😭😂

Eheh, I get one amebo gist for una ooo! 🤭Oya, carry your chair go sit for that corner, No noise-making, please! 😂🍿Eh, this gist is about one case that was brought to my humble chamber o! 😭😂 Yes, MY CHAMBER! If you like, dey doubt me🌚😂Well, it happened that I was inside my room trying to sleep around 3 p.m two days ago, i had just returned from school, and I needed to sleep so I could wake up for night reading...But Omooo, sleep refused to come! 😩🥲Na so I stood up, went outside, and sat down to collect fresh air...can't come and kill myself 😭😅So, there are these two neighbours of mine (villa mates) They're friends, and honestly, it's cool... In my villa, almost everybody has access to everybody's room, We literally live like one big family ☺️❤️So, these two were having a conversation as they came outside to join me, Na so the two of them rush me o! 😭😂It all started when one of them suddenly exclaimed that it wasn't right to visit your ex when you're already in another relationshipThe other one immediately fired back:"Why will you advise me on what you are guilty of?!"GBAM!!! 😂🔥Na so the first person call me come judge the matter! ...as how na😩😂Well, I smiled, trying to dodge the bullet, but none of them was ready to give up 😭Neighbour A, said the guy she visits, even while she's in a relationship, isn't her ex. Apparently, the guy once asked her out, but she declined. So, according to her, her case is different😂 Neighbour B, on the other hand, said the ex she wanted to visit wasn't really an ex either Apparently, their relationship lasted only three weeks, and they had nothing serious together. Blah, blah, blah! 🌚😂 At this point, they both turned to me and said, "Judge, give us your verdict!" 😭😂 Me: "Seh, you guys kuku know that I'm not in a relationship, so I can't relate!" 😂🤲The next thing I heard was:"Even if you're not in a relationship, you should still be able to say something! If you have a client now, is this how you'll respond?" 😭😭😂HAAAA! 😂😂😂So, it has reached the stage of bringing my professional competence into this matter? 🌚🤣Omo ....Oya, no problem! Let me put on my imaginary wig and gown👩‍⚖️😂 After listening to both sides, I gave my verdictFirst, Neighbour B. 😂I told her that visiting an ex, even if the relationship lasted only three weeks and nothing serious happened between them, could still be risky...I mean, we're all human beings! Feelings can develop, old emotions can resurface, and before you know it, one thing can lead to another...And before you realise what's happening, you've cheated on your main babe! 😩🤣 Neighbour B immediately said that wasn't possible because she knew herself. Me: "Okay o!" 😂🤲 Then, Neighbour A. 🌚😂I also told her that visiting a guy who had once asked her out wasn't entirely risk-free.The guy had expressed interest in her before, and even though she declined his proposal, did she really think he had completely given up on her? 🤔Visiting him could create room for emotional attachment, especially if the guy still had feelings for her or maybe it depends Sha...But guess what? Neighbour A also said it wasn't possible! 😭😂At this point, I just rested my case. 😂🤲BUT GUYS, DO YOU KNOW THE FUNNIEST PART?! 😭😭😂The truth is bitter, abeg! 🤣Na so these two started exposing their own secrets, all because one person wanted to prove that she was better than the other! 😭😂Omooo! Secrets wey I no know before, I don hear am finish! 😂😂All in the name of asking me to judge their matter! 😩🤣And the funniest thing was that whenever I spoke in favour of Neighbour A, Neighbour B would be smiling like someone who had just won a court case😂But the moment I turned to Neighbour B, Neighbour A would suddenly become happy! 😭😭🤣Imagine having two clients who only want you to give a judgment that favours them! 😂😂😂Meanwhile, me, I was just trying to give a neutral judgment based on my own understanding of the situation😭🤲But honestly, guys, let's talk! 👀Personally, I think visiting someone you once had a romantic connection with, or someone who still has feelings for you, can be risky when you're already in a relationship, not because cheating is inevitable, but because sometimes, we underestimate how emotions and familiarity can influence our decisions..But then, what do you guys think? 🤔❤️ .... Is it wrong to visit your ex while you're in a relationship, even if you both ended things peacefully? .....What about visiting someone who asked you out but whom you rejected? Is that also a problem? .....Or do you believe that once you've made up your mind to be faithful, nothing else matters?Abeg, let's discuss this matter! 😂🍿BUT PLEASE, NO FIGHTING IN MY COMMENT SECTION O! 😭😂 I don settle the one for my villa already. I no get strength to settle another one online! 🤣🤣...Oya make I hear your view ☺️🤲

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