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Childhood trauma
<p>Growing up in a society with so called norms , values and beliefs </p><p>I mean… who said this was wrong or right?</p><p>Someone and for all its worth that person could be wrong </p><p>This beliefs are unbelievable and these values contradict our desires </p><p>I once heard someone say:”our parents train us for the society not for who we are”</p><p>And I strongly believe it </p><p>Because we grew up believing tattoos were wrong , piercing some body parts are barbaric ( trust me I’m not saying it’s right, yeah we have to be modest ) but who said so ? The society? The world?</p><p>So yes if the society will criticize us , so should our parents?</p><p>Yunno you shouldn’t get beaten up outside with no love to envelope you when you’re home </p><p>Our home should be our solace</p><p>Somewhere that builds us to stand strong against hardship </p><p>Not bend to the will of the society because their so called norms and values deem it fit to differentiate right and wrong </p><p>So should I call our parents self centered?</p><p>We shouldn’t stain their names at the expense of our identity </p><p>Because if it was a norm to do this things the society has shamed , then we won’t be criticized </p><p>Childhood trauma…</p><p>At a tender age we are taught few things </p><p>They think they imbibe discipline but they do more of instilling fear</p><p>Fear of not being accepted by the society </p><p>Fear of being cast out , hurt and burnt </p><p>Fear of being chastised for being who you are</p><p>Because I know deep down you’re not who you say you are</p><p>You are not who the society thinks you are</p><p>You are who you want to be</p><p>Look deep into yourself, find your passion </p><p>Do you believe it ?</p><p>Trauma shouldn’t hold you back my love 😊</p>
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