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Moyosore Mary
Student, Freelancer writer @ @writer @Federal university of oye ekiti
Student, Freelancer writer @ @writer @Federal university of oye ekiti
Daniel, What Exactly Do You Want From Me? 😂😭
<p>Daniel, What Exactly Do You Want From Me? 😂😭</p><p><br/></p><p>I have a friend called Daniel, and one thing I've noticed about him is that sometimes, I don't think he actually wants me to be honest with him. 😂</p><p><br/></p><p>Let me explain.</p><p><br/></p><p>Daniel can come to me and say, “Please, I want you to be honest with me. Don't sugarcoat anything. Just tell me the truth, even if it hurts.”</p><p><br/></p><p>And because he's my friend, I'll tell him exactly what I think. I won't insult him or try to make him feel bad, but I'll give him my honest opinion because I believe that's what real friendship should be about.</p><p><br/></p><p>But tell me why, immediately after I finish talking, his mood will change. 😭😂</p><p><br/></p><p>He'll start explaining himself, defending every decision he has made, and somehow turn the whole conversation into a situation where I'm the one who doesn't understand him.</p><p><br/></p><p>Daniel, wait first! 😂 Wasn't it you who asked me to be honest? Why am I now standing in the witness box defending my opinion?</p><p><br/></p><p>The funniest part is that if I had agreed with everything he said, he probably would have been happy. But because I told him something he didn't want to hear, suddenly my honesty has become a problem.</p><p><br/></p><p>Honestly, I think some people don't really want your opinion. They want your approval. They want you to tell them they're right, even when a part of them knows they might be wrong.</p><p><br/></p><p>And please, don't get me wrong. Being honest doesn't mean being rude or deliberately hurting someone's feelings. There's a difference between telling the truth respectfully and using honesty as an excuse to insult someone.</p><p><br/></p><p>But if you ask me what I genuinely think, please don't get angry simply because my answer isn't what you expected.</p><p><br/></p><p>Daniel, my guy, next time you ask me to be honest, should I bring the truth or should I bring the answer you have already prepared in your head? 😂😭</p><p><br/></p><p>Now, tell me: Have you ever had a friend who asked for your honest opinion but got upset when you gave it? Or have you ever been that friend? Be honest in the comments! 👀😂</p>
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