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DON'T MARRY WHO YOU CAN'T RESPECT
<p>DON’T MARRY A MAN YOU CANNOT RESPECT.</p><p><br/></p><p>If you already know deep down that you cannot respect him, don’t marry him hoping marriage will change how you feel.</p><p><br/></p><p>Because marriage becomes exhausting when one partner constantly feels, “Why should I listen to you?” while the other feels, “Why don’t you respect me?”</p><p><br/></p><p>And yes, some people believe a wife should be able to say “Yes, sir” to her husband.</p><p><br/></p><p>But here’s the question:</p><p><br/></p><p>Is respect about saying “yes sir” to everything he says, or is it about honoring your husband while still being able to disagree with him respectfully?</p><p><br/></p><p>A woman should not marry a man she secretly despises, belittles, or has no regard for.</p><p><br/></p><p>But a man should also understand that respect cannot be demanded through fear, control, intimidation, or authority. It is built through character, responsibility, love, and the way you treat your wife.</p><p><br/></p><p>You can respect your husband and still have a voice.</p><p><br/></p><p>You can disagree and still honor him.</p><p><br/></p><p>You can say “No, I don't agree with you” without saying “I don't respect you.”</p><p><br/></p><p>So before you marry someone, ask yourself:</p><p><br/></p><p>“Do I genuinely respect this person enough to build a life with him?”</p><p><br/></p><p>And men, ask yourselves too:</p><p><br/></p><p>“Am I becoming the kind of man my wife can genuinely respect?”</p><p><br/></p><p>Because marriage is not supposed to be a battle for dominance.</p><p><br/></p><p>It should be a partnership where love, honor, wisdom, and mutual respect can coexist.</p><p><br/></p><p> What do you think? If a woman cannot sincerely say “yes sir” to her man, should she let the relationship go, or can a marriage work with mutual respect even when she disagrees with him?</p><p><br/></p><p>Kindly share your thoughts.</p>
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